Pregnancy.

dolce_amore · 11-07-2007, 07:08 AM

If you and your significant other were to get pregnant, would you keep it, put it up for adoption, or abort it?

If you are in a relationship, have you discussed it with your significant other?

Torn · 11-07-2007, 07:57 AM

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Originally Posted by dolce_amore

If you and your significant other were to get pregnant, would you keep it, put it up for adoption, or abort it?

Depends... Either keep it or abort.

clovertune · 11-07-2007, 08:29 AM

abort it, while it's still one or two months old.

keeping it: i'm not sure i'm mature enough to raise a kid, i feel like as if i'm still very much a kid myself. and selfish, yes, i still want to be free, and not burdened by a kid.

put it up for adoption: i think i will feel guilty, and well, i don't know what to say to the kid if lets say i meet him again in the future.

tessa_s212 · 11-07-2007, 08:30 AM

If I were to become pregnant I know that neither of us would ever consider abortion. Because if I'm "mature" enough to have sex, I'm mature enough to not murder my own child.

Keeping it or adoption would be our choices. We'd keep it I'm almost 100% sure. I might be more willing to consider adoption if I weren't with good reason to believe that my SO and I are going to be together for a long time. If I knew the father was a deadbeat, I'd consider adopting it out to someone that is more capable of beinga good parent and supporting the child financially.

Haxa · 11-07-2007, 05:40 PM

My girlfriend and i have talked about it and she said she would keep it. I personally don't think im ready to have a child if i was to abort it i would do it for the both of us so it wouldn't ruin both of our futures.

Phuck Buddy · 11-07-2007, 11:49 PM

she'd keep it, I'd make waffles. as soon as she gets in the shower, I'm out the door.

MadAl_x · 11-08-2007, 01:54 AM

I'm keeping mine. I'll have my cute little bundle of joy by April next year!

Al x

ForbiddenLove · 11-08-2007, 03:06 AM

We'd most likely keep it. He absolutely doesn't want me to get an abortion. But he knows it's my desicion and he'd support me in whatever I choose.

Phuck Buddy · 11-08-2007, 03:33 AM

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Originally Posted by MadAl_x

I'm keeping mine. I'll have my cute little bundle of joy by April next year!

Al x

may - make another one

MissV · 11-09-2007, 04:02 AM

I don't know what i'd do in that situation. I wouldn't abort it, though I am pro-choice. I would have to wait until the child is born to make the decision. I've known plenty of women say "i'm putting him up for adoption..." until they actually give birth.

princeton_girl · 11-09-2007, 04:22 AM

i would keep it, i mean even though im only 15, if i was stupid enough to get pregnant at my age, then i would just have to cope, and i dont see why the baby should suffer for my mistake.

MissV · 11-09-2007, 04:30 AM

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Originally Posted by princeton_girl

i would keep it, i mean even though im only 15, if i was stupid enough to get pregnant at my age, then i would just have to cope, and i dont see why the baby should suffer for my mistake.

Smart girl

DeLarge · 11-09-2007, 08:01 AM

Abort. We're not ready for a kid yet. I'm not old enough, and she's not old enough to know what to do. Her mum said to her the other day that she wouldn't look after her child if she got pregnant.

She wants to be a doctor, and I want to be a musician and chef - both jobs that require a lot of attention (and stufy for her) - we won't be looking at kids until at least 25 or so.

EDIT; although, in saying that, we are taking all the right precautions to make sure it doesn't happen.

Saved-by-Grace · 11-09-2007, 08:26 AM

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Originally Posted by clovertune

abort it, while it's still one or two months old.

And just out of curiosity...
If you don't realize you're pregnant until after the second month... then what?

Pleasant.Addictions. · 11-09-2007, 08:56 AM

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Originally Posted by Phuck Buddy

she'd keep it, I'd make waffles. as soon as she gets in the shower, I'm out the door.

I'd keep it.