So I send a message ti the girl I like asking her out

Soccergirl4:))) · 08-01-2012, 04:28 AM

Give it a few days because not every one checks their facebook every day.

JBrigg916 · 08-01-2012, 04:45 AM

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Originally Posted by Soccergirl4:)))

Give it a few days because not every one checks their facebook every day.

It wasn't on facebook, it was on XBL, and I had sent the message on Thursday at 10pm. :/
I dunno, although I do have an idea why she might be like this.

Sweet637 · 08-01-2012, 09:14 AM

Just wait. Maybe she's just busy doing things that needs more priority. If you can't wait then try sending her a message again asking how is she. If she response then ask her about what you sent last time.

Takumi Usui · 08-01-2012, 09:23 AM

I think you should have asked her in person or waited till summer hoildays were over, but you already sent it so I would wait. Also, don't send anymore msgs to her or you might come accross idk weird, i forget what girls call it.

JBrigg916 · 08-02-2012, 08:18 AM

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Originally Posted by Takumi Usui

I think you should have asked her in person or waited till summer hoildays were over, but you already sent it so I would wait. Also, don't send anymore msgs to her or you might come accross idk weird, i forget what girls call it.

Sorry if my spellings a bit off or it doesn't really make sense, I'm typing this up at 2am 'cause my internets been funny atm.

Thing is though she's been really weird with me lately, for instance, regarding the messages;
If I send her a message, sometimes, she won't reply to it. Sometimes she'll randomly send me messages and when I reply to them, she doesn't reply back. Other times she'll reply back to my messages either with a really long reply, which may take her a while to write, and other times a really short reply.
I dunno, I'm finding it really hard to explain atm and I'm just so confuzzled about this situation.....*sigh*.

If you wan't me to, post a reply, and I'll try to explain better tomorrow.

Sweet637 · 08-02-2012, 09:42 AM

Maybe she's busy. Try to see and ask her.

JBrigg916 · 08-02-2012, 09:00 PM

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Originally Posted by Sweet637

Maybe she's busy. Try to see and ask her.

I asked her if she wanted to go out so we could meet up and talk a bit 'cause I really enjoy talking with her.

JBrigg916 · 08-04-2012, 03:59 AM

Ok, she's going into town tomorrow, do you think I should just 'happen' to bump into her?

Dexter. · 08-04-2012, 04:02 AM

Yeah, totally won't come off as a stalker, do it, sure...

JBrigg916 · 08-04-2012, 04:11 AM

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Originally Posted by Dexter.

Yeah, totally won't come off as a stalker, do it, sure...

Lol, It's all good. I'm not a stalker, I just happned to have her twitter page open XD
I sent a message to her asking what a game was like, she replied and said she never played it but it's supposed to be good but difficult, I said that I might get it because it's on offer XP

Megs · 08-04-2012, 04:27 AM

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Originally Posted by WearAngels

I mean in taking back your words in that invitation was try to fake her that you were just kidding with that invitation. If she does again avoid you, then maybe it is time for you to move on.

That's a brilliant way to piss her off, saying you were joking about hanging out.

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Originally Posted by breana2000

i think you should ask her in person or on the phone
but not by text
if a guy were to ask me out i would like it to be in a cute way not by text
since u did text this to her you should make it very obious that u like her and not as a freind
so like she doesnt think you'r just hanging out as friends

Ditto this, don't ask girls out over text... At LEAST call her— she'd prefer it being in person but still.

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Originally Posted by JBrigg916

Can't ask in person, because we're on summerholiday/summervacation. So I can't see her unless I send her a message.

So you can't make time to see her unless it's a date? You have a lot to learn, boy.

JBrigg916 · 08-04-2012, 04:42 AM

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Originally Posted by meg.loomis

So you can't make time to see her unless it's a date? You have a lot to learn, boy.

I know I have a lot to learn.
So what would you suggest I do then?

Alex379 · 08-04-2012, 05:30 AM

I think you should call her and if she doesn't answer, then just wait a few days or so before talking to her again. Sometimes girls freak out and dont know how to respond and then we overthink things which freaks us out even more. Then we have to ask our friends and have a debate in our mind. Maybe you can even talk to one of her friends and see how she feels about you or ask her friend if the girl you like checked hr phone lately or something like that.

19adonis · 08-21-2012, 05:07 AM

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Originally Posted by breana2000

i think you should ask her in person or on the phone
but not by text
if a guy were to ask me out i would like it to be in a cute way not by text
since u did text this to her you should make it very obious that u like her and not as a freind
so like she doesnt think you'r just hanging out as friends

totally agree

ComplicatedMind · 08-23-2012, 09:17 AM

Things to learn from this situation.
1. Don't ask out over Xbox Live. (Or text message, Facebook, etc) Do it in person over voice phone.
2. Make conversation when asking someone out.
3. If she doesn't reply or doesn't talk about it, then it's a "no" and time to move on.
4. Get her number before you ask for her Xbox Live name.
5. Be specific when asking someone out.