08-12-2012, 05:50 PM
Join Date: Jun 2010
Complicated situation with my ex
Hey there! I have a complicated situation. So I started talking with a guy on the net 4 years back. We became so close even though we had never met in real life. We had a 1 and a half year 'open' relationship, which I decided to end back in december, last year because I was going through a really tough moment and I didn't want him to see me like that, even though he would have done anything to help me, as he had done many times before. We were planning to meet by last Christmas but I decided not to, so he lost the money he had already paid to come here. We didn't keep in touch (though he sent e-mails just asking how I was, telling that he missed me, if I had found someone else, etc., he also kept on posting statuses like 'It's not you who I blame, it's me who I cannot forgive', 'I was never good enough') In June, we started chatting again, and he just talked to me like he did before we had a relationship. He didn't even seem mad at me for what I did to him. Thing is, since I didn't split up with him because I had stop loving him (which he doesn't know), I find myself thinking about him all day long and it's getting hard not to tell him I'm still in love with him, but I don't know if he feels something for me and I don't want to ruin our 'friendship' or hurt him again. What could I say to make sure he has feelings for me without asking directly? And, in case he does, how could I say I want him back?