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Old 10-12-2012, 03:41 AM   #1
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what should i do? i am hopplesly lost.

so today, my girlfriend asked me if i felt like kissing her and i said after a long and nervous pause yes. but we are only together since last sunday and i just doesnt feel right to be wanting to kiss her eventhough i havent even met her in person yet. Know all i can dois think about how bad i feel about it know. i am also pretty darn derpressed because i have never kissed before nor ever thought about it. i dont know what to do, where to do it, when to do it. i am hopplesly lost and need help. PLEASE!!!
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Re: what should i do? i am hopplesly lost.

Well, tell her that it's not the right time. First kiss should be romantic and cute. Not something you are expecting. So I say to wait for the perfect, most amazing, (unexpecting) and romantic time. Like watching the sunset, or something. And don't do it on your first date. Wait longer. It drives her crazy, to see that you are so strong and a little reserved, kind of more controlling of yourself, and you won't just fall to peer presure or just go at it without feeling. Kissing is when a guy and a girl are the closest without actually getting into it sexually. So hold back and wait for the perfect time. good luck!
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Re: what should i do? i am hopplesly lost.

Girls do not like kissing. They think it's gross.
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Hi Pianoman,
Tell her that you feel shy and ask for some time till you develop frankness. Spend more time with her, take her to the movie or dine outside. It is normal just develop understanding with her and every thing will be fine.
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Re: what should i do? i am hopplesly lost.

So you haven't met her in person but she's your girlfriend... and you say it doesn't feel right t want to kiss your girlfriend, I think you have a lot to learn.
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Well, tell her that it's not the right time. First kiss should be romantic and cute. Not something you are expecting. So I say to wait for the perfect, most amazing, (unexpecting) and romantic time. Like watching the sunset, or something. And don't do it on your first date. Wait longer. It drives her crazy, to see that you are so strong and a little reserved, kind of more controlling of yourself, and you won't just fall to peer presure or just go at it without feeling. Kissing is when a guy and a girl are the closest without actually getting into it sexually. So hold back and wait for the perfect time. good luck!
thanks for the tip.
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Re: what should i do? i am hopplesly lost.

Easy. As stupid as it is, take a page from Twilight. Tell her that you don't know her well enough yet and it will only make her want you more. I know how you feel. I've never kissed anyone and I don't want to until I'm in a serious relationship, reserving yourself makes it feel more special.
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Re: what should i do? i am hopplesly lost.

I understand you feel nervous because it's your first kiss but usually people kiss people for the first time after a few dates in person, then they get together so you've kind of made this awkward. I personally believe you should've met your girlfriend before you got with her... She may not be what you expect.
But anyway, kissing isn't all that bad and just tell her you're nervous.
And us girls DO like kissing so ignore juicemoisture.
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I understand you feel nervous because it's your first kiss but usually people kiss people for the first time after a few dates in person, then they get together so you've kind of made this awkward. I personally believe you should've met your girlfriend before you got with her... She may not be what you expect.
But anyway, kissing isn't all that bad and just tell her you're nervous.
And us girls DO like kissing so ignore juicemoisture.
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And us girls DO like kissing so ignore juicemoisture.
Girls are prude and don't like the exchange of bodily fluids.
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Girls are prude and don't like the exchange of bodily fluids.
yeah, probably like 3 out of 100 dont like kissing. am i right?
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yeah, probably like 3 out of 100 dont like kissing. am i right?
No, more like 97 out of 100.

Look. It's a bit of a catch 22. Most girls hate kissing and sex and everything like that. They are normal though.

The girls who do like it, because they are so few are most likely mentally ill and/or has suffered from past abuse. Theres something wrong with them. They are engaging in sexual acts, not because they like it but as a self-destructive behavior.

Kissing between a guy and a girl is an act built on sexual attraction. If a girl likes kissing a guy, she has bagage and is not sane. It's possible she is psychotic. Would you really like a psycho girl in your life?
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Re: what should i do? i am hopplesly lost.

Yeah, I disregarded this thread from the moment you said this girl was your girlfriend, yet you'd never met her in real life.

Oh and juicemoisture - stfu. Usually I appreciate a bit of humous trolling, but you aren't even trolling skillfully, it's boring.
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