how to talk to her

360freak · 11-21-2007, 07:48 AM

I like a girl, and I want to get to know her more and I want to notice me more. She's really shy so it kind of seems akward to start small talk. How can I talk to her more?

DeLarge · 11-21-2007, 07:55 AM

Just talk about the weekend or whatever, get to know what she likes.
Then talk about her interests. You proceed further, until one of you says, "I'm horny, lets fuck."

360freak · 11-21-2007, 08:36 AM

shecantloveyou_x · 11-21-2007, 10:07 AM

just sit next to her and say hi. if she doesnt say anything first then just think of something to talk about. something good can come out of it. =]

Phuck Buddy · 11-21-2007, 07:55 PM

talk about things you like that she likes too....ask her about thanksgiving (what she's doing or what she did) ask her to go for coffee...find things in common with her

360freak · 11-21-2007, 10:56 PM

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Originally Posted by Phuck Buddy

talk about things you like that she likes too....ask her about thanksgiving (what she's doing or what she did) ask her to go for coffee...find things in common with her

im 14, coffee isnt really common

Phuck Buddy · 11-21-2007, 11:17 PM

go for ice cream....do I have to think of everything?

PlasticSpastic · 11-21-2007, 11:59 PM

Start talking to her on msn or whatever you use these days, then when you're confident enough t talk to her in person, when you see her start off with asking how she is, and then you will both gradually get confident to talk more to eachother.

360freak · 11-22-2007, 10:29 AM

ughh. she doesnt have msn, aim, facebook etc. the thing is i dont want to ask her out or anything yet, i just want to start slow. when i talk to her i get really nervous, so everything say comes out in a big mess and makes me look like a complete loser. does anyone know things to say and stuff?

Phuck Buddy · 11-25-2007, 02:44 PM

Hi. I'm (insert name here). I would greatly appreciate it if you would allow me to place my penis in your va-jay-jay. the end.

ash9303 · 07-04-2008, 05:42 AM

oy 360 freak i got the kinda same problem as u nd im 14 as well this chic i like i used 2 walk her home we used 2 talk on msn . but then i started getting busy nd cudnt walk her home or talk 2 her much.. now she's ignoring me cuz she thinks i dont like her ( as a friend) i dont get nervous talkin 2 her or that its jus i dunno how to fix things up!!! any1 help

day_dream_believer001 · 07-04-2008, 08:00 AM

If she's a shy girl, you need to make it really clear that you like her, otherwise she might not believe that you're actually interested. I was one of the quietest girl in my entire school, and most people didn't know I existed - so believe me, I know what I'm talking about. Think of something really unexpected bordering on random to ask her. Maybe you'll make her laugh and you two can just start talking. It would be an absolute dream if you just came right out with it and asked her if she wanted to see a movie or something, but I realize that's really hard to do. Start with online, that's easiest. Try to be charming and clever

Really, just be yourself and go for it.

If you need anything, message me

woodz · 07-04-2008, 08:05 AM

shes a shy girl?>?>?>?>? aaaahhh shit you know what that means,
FREAK IN THA SHEETS... atleast in atlanta it does. anyway since ur 14 i say u hit that movies, or ice skate rink, but first u need to talk wit her.
how often do u see her?

when you do see her talk about what she is interested in. if she is shy she may not wanna talk about what YOU are interested in first. i say ask the first question, and build off of her answer like:
what do u like to do for fun?
i like to draw...
o really, thats cool what type of drawings, sketch, watercolor, portraits... etc. yad yad yada.

she will becomne less shy, easier to talk to and you will also have an easier time talkin to her.

so

1. talk about things that interest her
2. eleborate on them, continue convorsation on what she likes and relate to it
3. you both loosen up
4. you ask her on a get together

good luck man

sasrules11 · 07-04-2008, 09:40 AM

I have the same problem, except I'm a girl

Start off by maybe sitting next to her at lunch or wherever and ask her about a recent sports game at school or a new movie that's out or something along those lines that she might know about. Ask her her opinion on the movie, or the sport event or whatever. Then you could switch over to a different subject, but be sure you let her talk! If you pass by her in the hallway, you could say hi and ask how she's doing and make a comment about a class or homework or something. Small conversations will eventually lead up to longer ones--good luck!

~Sara

summer_is_here!_0:) · 07-05-2008, 06:39 PM

as above (sasrules) except she might feel awkward if you just go and sit next to her at lunch where everyone can see, start saying hi and havin chats to her in the corridors before then sit next to her at lunch because you'll be able to have a better convo with her then and then ask her out - she'll be flatered xxxluck