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Old 01-02-2008, 03:51 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Exclamation HELP!!! I cheated.
Ok, so my bf went away kind of to a behavioral center because he had a mental breakdown. And he went on christmas! Well he was gone for a while even past new years. He still isn't home yet. I haven't seen him or talk to him in a week and a half (which I know isn't long at all). Well I went to a hotel with some friends and this guy was there. I have liked him since I was really really little. Well I took some (E) and he was on some pills also. We kissed a couple times and than we went swimming. We were def. all over each other, so we went upstairs to the suite and we drank a little. One thing led to another and we were having sex. And it was AMAZING!!! Afterwards he didn't ignore me like I was a booty call. He says he has liked me for a while and wants me to leave my BF. We held hands walking to the car and he let me sleep on him on the way to my house. Than we had the most romantic kiss ever and we are supposed to hang out today (it is 5:19 am) and I know stuff will happen. I feel so dirty but not at the same time. I know it's wrong but if my BF doesn't ever find out, is it ok? Or should I break up with my BF. I really honest to god love my BF but we are on the rocks. So should I tell him and let him go? Or just deal with the guilt and pretend it never happened?
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you can't carry on as normal it's not fair on your boyfriend, at least have the decency to tell him and you can both decide where you want to go from there
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Old 01-02-2008, 04:16 PM   #3 (permalink)
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Re: HELP!!! I cheated.
Maybe tell your bf when hes better =/ And tell the 'other guy' that you cant go through with it for a while. If he'll wait for you to decide what you want to do, then maybe he is worth it? As for pretending it didn't happen, well, I just think when you lie to yourself it always comes back to bute you in the ass.
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Old 01-02-2008, 06:15 PM   #4 (permalink)
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Re: HELP!!! I cheated.
you did a horrible thing at your bf time of need, you say you truley love your bf then how could you cheat on him while he was in a behavioral centre due to a mental breakdown. I would stop seeing the other guy untill it is over between you and your bf (if you are going to break up with him) as for breaking up with him, wait a while untill he is fully recovered as it could trigger another breakdown and that is not fair on him...
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Old 01-02-2008, 07:24 PM   #5 (permalink)
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Re: HELP!!! I cheated.
Yeah, I agree with basically everything that has been posted above. At least be honest. And don't engage in further acts of cheating when you're no longer under the influence, you'll feel horrible later and it's better to sit down and decide where exactly you intend for this to go...
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Re: HELP!!! I cheated.
Just think how you would feel in your boyfriend's position. The truth always has a way of coming out so even if you don't tell him I guarentee he will find out eventually. Wouldn't he prefer that he heard it from you rather than some random person gossiping. You owe him the truth at the very least. As for the other boy... I think you should cool it with him for a few weeks and when you do get together you should be discreet about it; don't rub it in your boyfriend's face. Good luck.
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Re: HELP!!! I cheated.
I really wanna be evil right now and say you did the right thing but I dunno if I should...oh, wait I just did.
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Re: HELP!!! I cheated.
damn that sucks for yu. its gonabe hard as shit to enjoy sex whne your not on E now. yu should neve fuck while on E cause it hightensthe experience so mucht hat it makes itseem incredable. . . but then its like everytime yu have sex afterwrd its not as good. ohwell
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Re: HELP!!! I cheated.
ok you should decide who do you like the most. if you are in love with this new guy then definitely let go of your old bf. and if you don't love this new guy, just want to have some fun, then stop it right here and now.
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Re: HELP!!! I cheated.
May I just say... The font and size of the writing is great

Secondly, you're a dirty whore with no self control. You don't deserve to be with anyone.

That is all
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Re: HELP!!! I cheated.
You are a perfect example of who I hope my girlfriend never becomes, even a little... not at all. Same for my daughter when I have one.

I would almost go as far to call you a whore... this is just wrong. You need to THINK before you do things.

No sympathy.
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you cant have the best of both worlds, you need to choose one or the other before you lose them both.
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Re: HELP!!! I cheated.
I can't sympathise...but there will be less pain if you end it sooner rather than later.
And drugs are bad! You should not of had sex on E that was really really really really stupid...it'll never feel the same.
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May I just say... The font and size of the writing is great

Secondly, you're a dirty whore with no self control. You don't deserve to be with anyone.

That is all
Sugar and spice that opinion's real nice.
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Sugar and spice that opinion's real nice.
Lol cheers
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