Okaay.. i dont really know where to start...
a few months ago this lad started texting me.. i sort of knew him already through a friend and seen him around.. i never took notice of him in a boyfriendish way.. lately the texting had gotten more chatty. my friends had told me that he really likes me and i should get with him and hes soo nice etc... anyways.. i had never thought of him in that way and so i decided i would take a chance and get to know him properly before deciding anything... as ive wanted to get to know him to find out if i like him in that way properly or not.. the more hes gotten to like me.. i feel bad on him because i dont think i like him in that way and i dont see myself being with him.. he also bought me a teddy 4 xmas because it was kind of a joke we had going and it reminded him of me and so he bought it and he also bought me some cred so i could continue texting him.. i appreciate the thought but bear in mind i never asked for them things and i also told a mate that i didnt think i like him in that way and would prefer to be mates with him.. allthough.. this new years i was out with him and i ended up drinking a fair bit and got drunk.. i wasnt paraletic just to say but as it struck new years i ended up kissin him and it was quite a long kiss. a mate told me that he was gutted he hadnt kissed me yet but when i kissed him it felt nuthing special to me.. my mate asked me do i like him in that way now and i was reluctant to answer as i didnt know if i did or not so i avoided the question. another thing is.. i speak to 1 of his best mates... i quite like him and feel like i have feelings for his best mate than i do the other lad.. i feel his best mate has something which the other lad doesnt hence why i like his mate more than the other lad who really likes me to begin with.. i speak to him secretly over text and bebo so no one can see because if the lad that really likes me saw and has before and got quite jealous and pissed off about it he would again.. we had abit of an argument about something that happened new years because the lad i liked came round to my mates where i was stayin and was with other mates of his that we knew aswell.. and they only really came round to see us and how we are etc... but i heard off a different friend today that the lad that liked me got really pissed off about it because it was early hours in the morning and they were drunk and he had had ago at 1 or 2 of them already about it.. i didnt really see the problem untill he said 1 of his mates (the 1 i like) said he proberly came round because he fancies me.. i didnt believe what he said so i questioned him and it didnt really turn out that he was in a good mood.. i had been texting his mate then aswell and we had been talking and i told him what was said.. he didnt seem impressed and was acting then abit strange when i told him he said you came round because you fancy me.. i felt he got protective as he was sayin if im chattin u up tell me and tha i was stunnin and he wasnt talkin flirty to me because he knew his mate really liked me.. i dont know what to do and im really confused.. can some1 plz help mee

wow.. I think you should tell the dude you dont like how you feel. its better to be honest and take whatever happens then regret not doing anything. It seems like when you were trying to see if you liked him..You were sending mix signals??..I mean I understand what your going through.. It happend to me!!.. Lol.. Except i always ignored The fact that he liked me because we were good mates but thats all that i could see him as. And he totalli understood how i felt. He was all like..Its better to be friends with you thn nothing at all. As for the other guy.. Take a chance!.. If he doesnt turns out all that you wanted.. Theres many other guys in this world!!..
Hope this helps!!..

Dont leave him hanging.

being honest is always the best solution. and it also leaves you feeling satisfied and totally at ease.