so do i like him???

xcountryygirl · 01-04-2008, 02:33 AM

so ive never really had a boyfreind before? but i met this really chill guy and weve gone out a couple times. hes goes to a different high school and hes really funny and we really have a good time together. I think hes really cute but i dont think im attracted to him? I had a huge crush on him before he asked me out and i still want to see him but im just really confused. we hooked up about a week ago for like 30 seconds and i thought it was pretty weird and i dont know if it means there is no chemistry or if im just really naive and need to try again.

i just cant tell how i feel, if im just really unexperienced or what. we laugh all the time, so im afraid i just need to be friends?

what should i do? advice?

SweetTemptations · 01-04-2008, 03:04 AM

Does he like you? Sounds like your just friends but it could always go further from there, keep hanging out and i'm sure you'll know how you feel about him and if you want to be more than friends. Just cause your not attracted to him physically doesnt mean you don't like him.

topuma · 01-04-2008, 03:08 AM

Maybe,you do but just keep on talking to him and you'll find out if you really like him.

robb · 01-04-2008, 03:22 AM

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Originally Posted by xcountryygirl

I had a huge crush on him before he asked me out and i still want to see him but im just really confused.

You met this cool guy that you like, you have a good time and then he asks you out...and suddenly you dont know if you like him any more. I can see why you're confused lol.

I think that you either feel guilty for turning him away so you're having second thoughts OR you just dont feel ready to have a bf.

mycyc.com · 01-04-2008, 03:47 AM

the feelings are there, but maybe your better just as friends?