Hi all,

I have been seeing my elder cousins daughter for some time now, she is 16 and I am 18, we have been having a sex regularly and being careful blah blah, none of the family know this yet about our feelings for each other. We got together when I was 16 and she was just turning 15. It was at my Cousins Birthday I realised I liked her and as the night went on we really got chatting about all sorts and found out we had loads in common. we had a kissing cousins conversation to see what we both wanted. (I felt soooo happy)
Now my problem is she is getting fed up as am I about sneaking around. Although we have been having sex I dont want the family to think I am some sort of perverted guy.
If this was another girl who was the same but wasn't my cousin I am sure no one would give a shit.

Has anyone else had a similar experience??

Thanks

I think you guys have a lot in common because you guys are cousins. Other than that I think if you guys really want to be in a relationship go ahead. I don't suggest having baby's though.

Dating your cousin :S?

Id never go out with my cousin or any relative..it just dont seem right.

It doesn't.
For a start you could possibly want marriage and kids eventually, what you gonna do then?

Inbreeding - Inbreeding is breeding between close relatives, whether plant or animal. If practiced repeatedly, it often leads to a reduction in genetic diversity. A concomitant increase in homozygousity of recessive traits can, over time, result in inbreeding depression. This may result in inbred individuals exhibiting reduced health and fitness and lower levels of fertility.

Lana, we all know what inbreeding is. Thank you for your infinite wisdom.

Look, man. Do what you feel like is right. If you feel like this is what you need to do, do it. Nobody can stop you. Just know there are risks to it and if you get caught, you might get a lot of unwanted attention. If you really feel strongly about her, then that's something that can't be helped. I haven't had a similar experience and I probably would never ever ever have one, but that's just me.

Just keep it on the low low until she's 18 if it lasts that long. There's nothing that can be done at that point. Just be careful, for the love of God. Condoms and birth control. No kids, mate. Worst thing that could happen.

EDIT: For the record, I don't condone it, but it's his choice. Not anyone else's. He didn't ask for your ridicule, he asked for your opinion.

Don't be so sure... someone didn't know what a tall tale was the other day :S

I'm assuming you mean tall tale? Lol.

Yeah one of them... my bad... lol

Edited =]

It's cool. :P

Wasn't sure if you noticed it

Meh, I don't look what I'm typing half of the time, I either watch the t.v or I'm watching something else lol

But yeah, someone didn't know what one of them was, so I thought a brief definition would be in order. Also to the thread starter too