Relationship ended

Manda_xo · 01-06-2008, 01:08 PM

Well im not going to go to into it because i dont want to bore you but basically im 16 & so is he we was gettin engaged nd we been together for 2 years & he was my 1st love & i truely did love him & he dumped me a lil while ago because something to do with my past but the thing is im finding it hard to get over him and my mates dont help cause all they ever do is talk to me about him and i dont get on with my mum or bro so i cant talk to them and basically im always in tears over him because i love him to bits but he keeps dumping me and picking me back up all because of my past and it always breaks my heart and yeh im pregnant by him and he knows i am and i just dont know what to do :S

Pretzel · 01-06-2008, 04:03 PM

Getting engaged and up the duff at 16 is a bullshit idea. That's your life fucked up.
Anyways you're better off without this lame dude. "Something about your past" you say? Well you dated this guy for 2 years and I'm guessing it's something before this period? So you were what? 14! Naive and young. If it is something that happened during the 2 years then he's an ass because he's managed to put up with it until now or you lied to him and he's just found out. It's just guess work because you "not going to go into it"

cassie--valentine · 01-06-2008, 05:38 PM

if your pregnant to him, look after yourself.
youre 16, and now pretty much your life is screwed, trust me, my sister is 21 and she has a 3 month old son and she cant keep up, and shes married.
getting engaged is a little to soon for your two, i think its piling onto all ur stress.

what is the thing in your past..? did you cheat?

Manda_xo · 01-07-2008, 01:40 AM

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Originally Posted by cassie--valentine

if your pregnant to him, look after yourself.
youre 16, and now pretty much your life is screwed, trust me, my sister is 21 and she has a 3 month old son and she cant keep up, and shes married.
getting engaged is a little to soon for your two, i think its piling onto all ur stress.

what is the thing in your past..? did you cheat?

yeh ano, no i didnt what happend was me and him was on a 'split' and i got with some lad and yeh i was with him for 1 day when he had got with some other girl and she gave him a bj nd so on.. whre i didnt do nothing with this lad but its like its alright for him to date otherppl wen we split but not me so yeh im like confused ;s

BlockHead2111 · 01-07-2008, 03:13 AM

He sounds like a complete dick to me. Sorry if me being so blunt upsets you, but seriously, getting you pregnant at 16, getting engaged to you, then dumping you 'cause of something you did but didn't do (if you know what I mean) is bullshit, especially seeing as he got a BJ at the same time as you getting with this other guy. If he thinks that's all fine then he's a dick and don't deserve you.
Either have an abortion (if you're able to/if you want to), or have the baby and look after yourself and the little kid because it's father's a complete twat.

Once again, sorry for being blunt, but I can only go by what you've written, and you described him as a complete twat.