A few days ago, i was innocently scrolling through my boyfriends text messages.
I didnt expect to find what I did.

Him and one of my friends (shes not my best friend, however we used to be really close and we still talk) have been texting each other. Basically about what theyd do if he was single etc etc. Obviously this really upset me.

Im more angry at her, its one thing being betrayed by a boyfriend, but its another when its one of your friends.

I confronted him. I cried, he cried. He said he didnt have a reason for doing it, apart from he used to like her alot a long time ago. He wants a second chance. Hes said things to me that made me feel amazing, things no one else ever has. But after what hes done, it would take a very long time to be able to trust him again.

I'm crazy about this guy, and i really dont know why!


What do i do?

(forgot to put one on my thread)

i don't think it's a good enough reason to dump him and i don't like people looking at my texts but if ihe's cool with that then whatever. Just give him a bollocking and let it blow over, if he promises it won't happen again. It was only text messages, if he didn't act on them then it's not a huge deal. Talk to your friend aswell find out why she did it etc etc

i think you should take him back.
have a serious talk to your friend.

deffinetly take him back. guys always talk about stuff they would do if they were single but thats usually all it is just talk. its kinda a way to blow off any steam. it aint likes hes gunna do any of it so relax, take him back and enjoy

Take him back, but if he does it again or acts on any of what he was saying than its different. Your friends got some nerve though i'd confront her to.

take him back. it sounds like he really is very sorry

Take him back but I wouldn't give your forgiveness so easily. That's pretty heavy stuff. I was with somebody and basically the same thing happened, but three or four times until I was so hurt and had had enough. Don't let that happen to you. Be strong. But still take him back, from this he does sound genuine.

Haha your wording is just brilliant

I say everyone deserves a second chance, and if it were just texts and he didn't actually do the stuff then I suppose you could forgive him.
I'll be honest and say I'm guilty of it myself, BUT me and the girl were just messing about, and we both knew neither of us meant nothing by it, just playing around, though admittedly my GF didn't find out. Maybe they were just pissing around?

Either way give him a second chance, everyone deserves one.
But if he does it again then...

Hope I've been of help

Take him back!
people say things to each other sometimes, not thinking they're in a relationship, men just go ahead and say it.

You should take him back.

Let him know that you're not just gonna let it blow over and that he'll have to gain your trust back though.

Do whatever feels right for you

well to be honest you shouldnt have been looking through his texts in the first place.
and its not something to break up over.

Hmm it your choice, she has every right to go through his texts. What else could he have been hiding. But he did seem sorry. So it up to you no one else can make the decision for you.