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01-06-2008, 11:52 PM
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unkissable?
Ok so I've been going out with this guy for a week now and he hasn't kissed me. At first I thought I wasn't giving him enough of a chance, but last night I thought I gave him a few good openings.
I don't get it. I know he likes me because he asked me out. He puts his arm around me when we watch movies, and when I'm cold outside. I lay on his arm and stuff but no kissing.
I know some people are going to say give it time but I'm just really paranoid about the subject because the first boyfriend I had NEVER kissed me.
I'm starting to wonder if I'm unkissable.
Is it something I'm doing wrong?
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01-07-2008, 12:15 AM
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Re: unkissable?
he may just be nervous  might be that he hasn't gone out with many girls before so he may not be very 'experienced' in that area
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01-07-2008, 12:41 AM
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Re: unkissable?
Yeah maybe hes never kissed someone before in that way. Have you tried to make the frist move yet? Maybe hes waiting for you
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01-07-2008, 12:47 AM
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Re: unkissable?
I'm not confident enough. I don't want to try if he doesn't want to kiss me, I'll get embarrassed.
plus I honestly have no idea how. -_-'
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01-07-2008, 12:51 AM
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Re: unkissable?
He probobly does, it would be kinda odd if someone dates you but doesnt wanna do anything with you. I'd wait for him to make the move too though.
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01-07-2008, 12:57 AM
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Re: unkissable?
I guess I can wait but I just feel kind of pressured. I feel almost like our relationship isn't real if we haven't kissed, you know?
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01-07-2008, 01:35 AM
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Re: unkissable?
I bet he's just nervous. I did the same thing.
I never kissed my second girlfriend cuz i was nervous and stuff. I'm not sure why, I thought she'd get mad at me or something.
If you make the first move he'll feel a lot better about it. I bet he wants to but he's just scared.
like sam said, maybe he's just inexperienced.
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01-07-2008, 01:43 AM
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Re: unkissable?
"If you make the first move he'll feel a lot better about it."
ahh but that makes me so nervous! I've never kissed a guy and I have no idea whatsoever how to! -_-'
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01-07-2008, 01:46 AM
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Re: unkissable?
Alot of guys get nervous over making the first move, because its expected of them and they don't feel entirely confident about doing it. Maybe due to inexperience, but more than likely not wanting to look/feel stupid if they get pushed away.
With the girl im with atm, i really wanted to kiss her, and even though she was giving me obvious openings i still didn't go for it....in the end she made the first move...guys like a girl that will do that.
I say go for it. Just because your a girl it doesn't mean you can't make the first move!
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01-07-2008, 03:37 AM
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Re: unkissable?
like everyone said he is probably just nervous, if he didn't want to kiss you he wouldn't be going out with you. The other day i was on my third date with a girl and it took me over an hour and a half to get the courage to hold her hand. She got really close when I was leaving and I knew she wanted me to kiss her but I just freaked out for some reason and just said bye and left. He'll be stoked if you make the move, I know I would have been. Otherwise just wait for him to get more comfortable around you.
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01-07-2008, 04:44 AM
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Re: unkissable?
you should just kiss him. i mean if youre going out and he turns away, then theres obviously something wrong. itll be fine.
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01-07-2008, 04:50 AM
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Re: unkissable?
My guess is you smell  |
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01-07-2008, 05:06 AM
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Re: unkissable?
Well maybe instead of thinking that there is something wrong with you, try talking to the guy and ask him what he is all about. Chances are that he is more of the sensetive type and would rather truly get to know you before going to the physical aspects first.
By the way. IT'S ONLY BEEN A WEEK!
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01-07-2008, 05:09 AM
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Re: unkissable?
When i was dating my ex, it took me months to feel comfy kissing him.
I know it sounds weird, but hes probabaly embarrased.
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01-07-2008, 07:12 AM
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Re: unkissable?
Kiss him :P
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