Why are a lot of girls, (I understand not all ) so bloody insecure?
I know a lot of girls who are really insecure, my cousin's ex for example. She's 17 he's 16, she's having his kid (early I know), he has a very good paying job, and I know he loved her to bits, and wouldn't dream of cheating on her. Yet for some reason, she accuses him of shagging nearly every girl he's in contact with. It pissed him off so bad that they split up, and I don't think he wants her back (though he says he is definitely not going to neglect his daughter when she's born). Now the poor kid's gonna have split parents before she's even born, because my cousin's ex was so insecure.

Another example.
My bloody MSN pic! It's of me and a girl when I was out with my mates. And I mean mate. The girl in the pic with me is one of the best friends I've ever had, and she means the world to me, and I love her as a friend. Yet I've been told by my other mate's girlfriend that if my girlfriend sees the picture, it would make her feel jealous and insecure! WTF??!!

I love my girlfriend, but I'm not giving up my friends for anyone or anything, and I'm not gonna just stop having pics taken with mates just because they're female.

This is something that's been really pissing me off. I understand there are girls that aren't like this, but from what I can see, most girls are.
Anybody like to tell me why?

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Men tend to shag anything with a pulse...

Watch Jerry Springer. You'll find your answers

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No offence, but that program is a pile of shit.
And you can't now alot of men, or the men you know are complete dicks, like I said

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I kow the show is shit... That was part of the... Oh Forget it.
Face of life is, men crave sex. As do a lot of women do, but men are prone to cheat becuase they can't keep their dick inside their boxers.

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Cannot answer this.
But women tend to be more sensitive.

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support leader,

because men are typically thought of as cheating assholes.
that's part of the reason behind the two of the situations you presented.
but yes, women also tend to be sensitive and insecure and that obviously makes the problem worse.

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Yet women grow out of it.

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support leader,

men are horny pricks.

that is my only answer to questions like these.

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teenage girls have a desperate need for reassurance.

its normal but if your girl gets jealous that easily, than thats a bit more self conscious than most.

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we are nowhere and its now

They're fat.

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Every girl has a stereotypical view of a guy.

And obviously, if a girl really loves a guy they're so scared of losing them that it makes them feel jealous if they see their boy with another girl.

Although tbh, a few guys are the same.

"If you trust, you don't get jealous." That includes trusting yourself, partner, and relationship. If you don't trust yourself, the person you are in a relationship with, and your relationship as a whole... you're GOING to be a jealous person. Jealousy is disgusting and I hate it. I don't understand it at all. Then again, I've never been a jealous person. I realize that people will always find someone else attractive, they will always want to have sex with someone else, they will always have friends of the opposite sex, etc. That goes for both males and females. Just because you're in a relationship, doesn't mean that you're suddenly not allowed to have a life or being a human being with urges and desires. If your girlfriend gets mad over a picture like that, it's her problem. She can't be upset with you for having friends and if she does, she's not worth your time.

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