I'm stuck between two girls and I've got no idea who to go for.

The first one, I've got history with. She's really hurt me in the past when we went out and she made lots of mistakes. It made me really unhappy and it affected me pretty badly. She's been out with this other guy since but they split up bout a week ago. Me and this girl are best friends, we were before we got involved with each other and somehow, after everything that's happened, we still are. I've waited so long for a proper relationship with her cause I know she's happier now, and doesn't carry the bagge she did the first time around and I reckon we could make a decent go of it, but I really don't want to put myself out there again and watch history repeat itself cause I don't know how I would deal with it again.

The second girl, I've known for a long while and we're pretty good friends. I've always had those lingering li'l feelings for her, y'know? We talk, have lessons together, spend time together, walk home together etc. She knows I've liked her, and vica-versa. She was thinking of asking this boy out but she's kinda changed her mind. There was a period of about 4 months last year where we kept making it obvious we liked each other but never went out, I don't know why but it just never happened. Only problem is that when I'm around her, I'm not sure if I can annoy her sometimes? I probably don't but that's how I see it sometimes. I think we could have a proper relationship together and she ain't too clingy.

I spose what I'm asking is what do you think I should do? I know after being really hurt by the first one, maybe the obvious choice is the second one but I worked so hard and put so much time and effort the first time round that I know there's something still there, so for me it isn't clear cut.

Thanks.

Well the safe and easy choice would be the second girl, obviously. But if you really like the other girl then she might be worth it. I guess it depends. Which one do you like spending time with more?

Yeahh. That keeps coming into my head. The thing is, although she's hurt me, she's done so much for me as well. I mean, I haven't had the most stable of situations at home all the time, I've had death to till deal with and certain anger issues too, and she seems to be the only person who I feel like can really help me when it ain't so easy. I feel like I need her in a way, cause I feel much more positive when she's around, I don't just go flying off and cause bigger problems for myself and I can talk to her when something's gone wrong. Maybe that's wrong, I don't know.Saying that, the second one could help me with certain problems, but not all of them, I don't think... Again, maybe I'm wrong. Only one way to find out, I guess.As for spending time around them, I'm not sure who I prefer, I know that isn't much help, lol. Sorry.

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I'd go with the second. Going out with someone you're already best friends with has always been awkward for me, because suddenly your relationship with your best friend has changed, and it feels weird and uncomfortable to now have a relationship with them

Do you even think these girls are really right for you?

something you have to decide on your own , we can only make a judgement from what you've said as we don't know them

which one do you feel most comfortable around and at ease with, which do you enjioy the company more of, if you have to make lists lol, might make things clearer for you

go with Girl B.

best situation:
most likely Girl A will get really jealous and want to go out with you again.
and if you ever break up with Girl B, you will likely just be able to transfer to Girl A, and she'll probably try to be a better girlfriend so she doesn't let Girl C get your attention.

or you could do what you think is best. i don't know the situation that well.

sincerely,

some random dude.