hi there i receantly got my first girlfriend we have been going out just over a month we are both really happy and we really enjoy just going to eachothers houses or going anywere togeather.

my problem is my mum doesnt want me seeing her everyday (so far these school holidays every single day we havnt been busy or one of us away from our houses we have seen eachother) which is like 15 days out of 25 lol.
my mum said yesturday after i was like begging to go over her house that she would rather me sit on the computer all day talking to her on MSN (my mum allways used to yell at me for no lifing on the computer (i used to play runescape i quit awhile ago) and now she would rather me sit here on the computer all day than me seeing My girlfriend its so annoying and weird.


well do you guys think its better for me to sit at home on a computer talking to her (or on the phone) or having her over at my house or me at hers or going out somewhere?

PS: im only 15 so i need lifts or being picked up everytime i go see her.

I could see your mom being pissed about having to drive you guys around almost every day. You gotta balance it and stuff, it's great spending time but you'll eventually get sick of being together constantly.

Is she close enough for you to walk? Meet up half way between your houses? Or maybe its not the driving, maybe your mum doesnt want anything happening when your at her house?

Your mum is losing you to another female. Pretty natural for her to be protective when you think about it "Primitively".

Could be a number of things. I would ride your bike to see her.

I agree, this was one of the reasons my last relationship crumbled. We saw each other every single day, had classes together, shared a locker, and we had the same friends so when I went to hang out with my friends she was always there. Some people will say that it doesn't matter but in my opinion seeing each other too much is not good for the relationship =)

Thanks for all the responses. the riding the bike isnt to easy getting back as i live up the hill compared to her area (the areas are still both pretty bad so im not trying to sound snobby it just happens that there is a hill and there the lower half) so getting back would be hard and its like a 10 min drive so its not that annoying and they only have to take me one way.

i cant ever see me getting bored of her and we have only ever had one class togeather at school and her locker is in a total diferent area (might be diferent this year though) so seeing eachother is really really fun atm

Hey! I think you're a sweet guy who cares a lot about your relationship with your girlfriend. I also think you're mother's exagerating. Plus it's not good for you to stay all day playing at the computer instead of breathing fresh air! I suggest you tell your mother that.

spend all day on webcam to your girlfriend and when your mum asks what you're doing say, "I'm showing my girlfriend my penizzzz go away, I need to hammer out the stress I'm having not being able to get out of the house" haha lame

your mums getting pissed for driving you around.

she has only taken me 3-4 times my dad does most of the other driving and her dad does to

Ha! I play Runescape. =)
Anyways, regarding your problem: I don't think its much of a problem. You're 15 years old and I think that you would have more girlfriends in the future. (Indirectly pointing out that what you have now you're going to lose) That is life and it moves on. You've only been going out for a month and therefore your feelings might just slightly be all "tingly" right now. However, take some time knowing if those feelings of yours towards her are really true. Now, it will be fairly hard to have the knowledge of that instantly especially at your age, however if you feel like you are mature enough to handle a serious relationship that is the time when you can have a talk to your parents about your annoyance towards their comments about your girlfriend. Also, I think you shouldn't spend nearly all of your time with her as others have said, it's bad for relationships. Try going to the gym, play sports, hang out with your guy friends, play Runescape instead of merely socializing and doing whatnot with your girlfriend. After all, you are only 15 years old and relationships shouldn't be your major toll right now.

i do play sports and all that stuff its just that sports get called off durning the chirstmas holiday break. my sport is starting back up tomorrow NO!!!!!!!!! not cricket and i still see/talk to my male friends but its hard atm because im changing friend groups at school and dont know who are really my friends