I was wondering, what do people think of others with low self-esteem in relationships? I was trying to think of a reason why I've never gone out with anyone, and I realized it wasn't because the other person didn't like me (although it was probably still true), but due to low confidence, it was like I wouldn't let myself ask the person out.

And just so you know, it's too that the point where I like, really just don't like myself.

people like confident partners i suppose.

but i also like shy guys.

If you don't like yourself how can anyone else like you.

true that.

yea from what I hear confidence is key, You should invest in it, even if you look like a jackass,

I know I did, I became the fucking clown and it paid off big time, Still no girlfiend, but at least I have alot more friends now, I dont think there is anyone in the school that hasn't seen me do something stupid in the halls.

Sometimes I have my bad days,

those days that I look at myself in the mirror and I could fight the guy I'm looking at because I feel like I hate him that much. yea, I may not exactly be happy, or have the highest self esteem, but I dont let people that I interact with on a daily level notice it.

As far as anyone that sees me everyday knows, I dont have a problem in the world and am just the happiest guy alive.

What I wish I could do is find a medium, because when I act like I do in school, When I actually have a bad day, I have no one to talk too that can help me out and pick me up, and thats really depressing.

then again, I might just be over analyzing your situation here. anyways, best of luck to ya.