i have a huge problem. i work with this guy he is a year younger than me and we became friends instantly and after that ive liked him ever since. i dont have many guy friends and sometimes my heart takes the better of me before my head does. he has many girl friends, a little to many actually.

i asked for his number and things were going great it was mostly me who would text him, sometimes i had to look for an excuse to talk to him, it was mostly about work.
other times it was just "hey how are you going" or "how was your day?" then i really started to open up to him and told him half the secrets even my best friends dont know about me.

i was planning to tell him i liked him, but things blew out of hand when a older girl at work told me he told her he likes me. i half believed it. so i texted him about it plus saying i liked him and he said it wasnt true, and that he only wants to be my friend at the moment, because he just got out of a bad relationship a few months back. he said he was getting over her slowly. he said i was a great friend though.

i respected that, and working with him after that was very awkward at first, but now things are on track. we have been texting a little more and he complimented me saying i was hot and funny and cool and all this. and no guy has ever told me this. im reeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeally confused because last night i was working with him, and he came up to me and told me about how his ex girlfriend wont leave him alone because her boyfriend dumped her and she wants to get back with him. he said he is over her, and then just walks away.

after that work was usual, we talked and laughed and helped eachother. then after work we were texting and things were weird because i told him i was writing in my diary and he asked what i write about him. i said it was private but i write good things about him then he went on to saying what a good person i am and all this. i didnt get that at all....

i do NOT get this guy.. i like him alot.
advice appreciated.
sorry for the long story

he sounds like he doesn't know what the !@!#$ is going on to be honest, you might want to avoid him, on the count of he probably doesn't know what he wants

you can probably do better, judging from your profile pic there. ur pretty hot

lol, thanks, but im not that hot, i just take good pictures.

i like him alot and ive tried to avoid him, its hard to at work.
ive tried to stop liking him but i cant

xD ... arr.

Ah this guy again. I've reaad so many of your other threads with this guy lol. But I think that he might not be ready to move on and date right away again and just wants to be friends for now. After a while i'd ask him if he likes you at all. Mise well nto waste your time trying impress some guy when he only feels for you as a friend. If he doesn't like you don't worry theres alot of other guys out there. I know that line is overused but its true. Keep your chin up

yeah i know i post so many threads bout this guy
last night we worked together and we talked HEAPS.
but last night he texted me saying he loved me.
and i dont know if was a friendly i love you, or a i love you i love you.
it was "gtg love you xoxo"

arrghh!!!