I am turning into such a bitch to him. When he goes out with friends I get madly jealous and I just get in a really really really bad mood. Most of the times I hide it.. because I know he's aloud to go out!!
He does the tiniest thing wrong or tiniest lack of enthusiam about us I get so down. Its an unhealthy relationship. i need help!
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Hmmm.

Leave him, perhaps?

Look for someone like me.


I know it sounds like a drastic move, but if you two have been dating, for awhile, and he still fails to see he should spend more time with you, then his friends. Then maybe hes not ready for a relationship.

Yeah he's aloud to go out, but why doesnt he invite you with him. If it's jut with guys I wouldn't see any reason to get mad at him but if hes gonna be with other girls not take you along or invite you then I'd be pretty upset especially if he's gonna be drinking.

Maybe you should talk to him? Ask him to spend less time with his freinds?

hello ,
i suggest u one thing dear ,leave him coz he is nt good for u, he is nt a good person 4 u
thanks

I guess you might have to leave him like the others' said.

But then again, I GUESS, that if you still have strong feelings for him, then tell him how you feel and you both might find a soloution or something.
Tell him that you feel unsecure.

People are saying hes allowed to go out, yes, he is allowed. But he is in a relationship. If I was in his position, I'd hang out with my friends, when the girl would allow it, cause she should come first.

Do the same as him: when he goes out you go out. Don't think about him.

sounds like the relationship is goin a lil south. do sumthin ta spice it up there already a couple threads on how to put a lil more passion back in the relationship read them and try a few of the ideas.

maybe your latching on to him, Thats a huge turnoff to alot of guys.

Anyway, Everyguy needs a night or two to go out, and vent with his friends about stupid shit concerning you, the girlfriend, or other shit.

Even if you think so, Your boyfriend will say shit in front of his friends that he will never say in front of you, and a guy needs that.

you getting pissed off about it isn't really going to help, but maybe you should consider breaking it off if you feel that he doesn't give you enough time, maybe you should look for a guy that will spend most of his time with you.

I know that I'm not going to spend every hour of my life with my girlfriend, no matter how upset she may get, because that has to be unhealthy.

What is it about him going out that makes you jealous or upset? If it's because he's not with you, then you really need to get over it, because it's normal and healthy and needed (I think!) to have a life outside of your relationship. You can't sit there and be together all the time. You can't expect them to drop everything in their life for you if it's not a really serious situation. If it's because you just are having doubts in the relationship, don't take that out on him. TALK to him about it instead. Being a bitch isn't nice, especially if he doesn't know he is doing anything wrong. You saying he's doing "tiny things wrong" isn't fair to him in the least bit, because I'm sure he has no idea you feel that way. A relationship is about being honest and communicating with one another, so do that!

I think that's the best reply in this thread. In my opinion people shouldn't be telling her to leave him based off of that one post that doesn't indicate that HE'S doing anything wrong. It just seems like the girl is getting jealous and insecure and needs to talk to him about it.

So that's my advice to you, talk to him about it.