guys and girls both are welcome to give their advice. specially guys.

okay so theres this guy right! i started liking him a while back because my friend started teasing me about him first i thought i was being daft and said to myself dont be daft! but then after a while i was like whoa i really do like this guy!

anyways i cant help it but stare at the guys i like! i have seen him look at me too several times and even had eye contact anyways moving on the thing is this guy flirts with other girls or it could be just a friend thing its hard to tell.

well we dont talk or anything because he was never in my classes but we are in the same year. the friend who teased me about him has noticed that he seems to stare at me as well when i go past him or if im near him. so do you think i should carry on liking this guy and hope for the best to happen or should i just move on?

plus i would talk to him but im too shy and get embrassed easily. my friend who teased me abour him tried to get us to talk but i got shy!

i think you should try. there nothing to lose, and who knows..

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yea go for it, whats the worst that could happen?

p.s. im not accountable if your struck down by a random bolt of lightening after you do it ; |

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haha

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You like him, but you never talk? Huh?
I'm then assuming that you know nothing about him, so it's impossible to tell if you like him or not.

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lies
liking is different from loving. you can fancy someone w/o really knowin them

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I never said liking in loving are the same.
But to like someone, you have to know them.
She obviously thinks he's cute or whatever, and likes his smile or something, but she knows nothing about him. It could be a recipe for disaster. You could be two completely different people.

Talk and hang out. If you are compatible, take it further. You may just find that you hate each other's guts.

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That's not true - You can like someone if you don't know them. You can be attracted to them, or have a crush on them, both "likes". It just depends on your definition.

OP, I think you should find a reason to talk to him if you can. But if you won't take the first step and talk to him, then I think you're wasting your time a little bit.

well.. yea. you could either like him like him. or just like him :O

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okay its hard startin talkin to a boy how do i do it? i mean yea i talk to alot of guys and joke around and that but they are the guys i have known for 5 years so i dunno how to talk to a guy who i have seen around for five years but never talked to him!??! actually it was only once when he asked me if i knew where his mate was but anyways thats not the point! help!

If he's in a club, join that club. There's one easy way to get close to a guy. Join the clubs he's in, be where he is.

Be guilty by association.

he lol thx but there only one boys and girls mixed club which is basketball and he dont come to it!

the best thing to do would be talk to him. Trust me i know its hard. Im super shy too. But whats the worst that can happen.. if he talks back and seems interested ask him to hang out.. doesn't necessarily have to be a date.. and see where it goes.. if he doesnt seem interested.. well theres always more guys

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