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eyy i just had my school winterball a couple days ago, and i was set up on this blind date thing with my moms coworkers son, and i had an amazing date. he was hella flirty and said stuff like "maybe ill take u to a movie sometimes.""im gonna take u to one of our dances bla bla.""i cant believe u dont ave a bf. i think u shud have the most luck out of everyone here." and during the night, he held my hand and led me to the dancefloor. we danced some but we spent a lot of the evening sitting and talkin. he was txtin on his phone some, but he wud tell me who he was talkin to and what he was sayn and wud be like "im so sry, i know this is rude." when we wud walk he wud stand really close to me (like i wud always end up hittin my hand with him accidentally). when i dropped him off, he was likke "dont be shy, u can call me." i txted him last nite and we talked some but a lot of his text wud be short with "lols" and "hahas". do u think he was jus playin me or do u see something happening here?
I have no clue.
But that's the problem with young people today. I'm a male, and I am always a gentleman around females. I don't swear, or swear a lot less, I always remember my P's and Q's, I open doors, let them go first. Let them have my chair, a pregnant or old lady even more so. Even if I don't like them, I'll still do it, because that's how I was brought up and that's what I believe is the right thing to do. it makes a woman feel good about themselves.
But the problem is nobody else does it. So when a guy treats you with the utmost respect and is a gentleman, you don't know what to think. I always have girls looking at me like they think I'm trying to pick them up or whatever, but the truth is, I'm just a nice guy around ladies.
I'm the same way as DeLarge and all the girls think that I'm just a nice guy and don't pay attention to me.
But staying on topic, it seems like he does like you if he has been purposely getting really close to you. Also, he seems like he would want to see you more if he's been talking about going to the theater.
I'm not sure, he could have just been being a gentleman, but theres only one way to find out, just keep flirting with him and stuff like that, ask him to go to the movies, get to know him a lot more and maybe you might be with him
DeLarge made a good point, some guys are just gentlemen around girls. I'm the same actually, and have had many girls think i "like" them just because im being pleasent and respectful.
In your case however it sounds more like he really does like you. I mean if he doesn't, he's leading you on alot. I would continue flirting and meeting up and see how it develops. In most cases, guys make the first move, and he sounds very confident, so i'd wait and see if he goes for it. If he doesn't, then you know he probably only wants to be friends, but give it time. : )
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