so stuck in the past.. need help finding my future

kaityyroxursox · 01-24-2008, 06:06 AM

i am in love with my ex-boyfriend. its been almost 5 months. he just left all of sudden :[ cause we would still talk after we broke up.. he used to sorta have a thing going for my best friend.. and now i just found out they are talking still. she is a little asian slut and i think the only reason he is talking to her is cause he wants naked pictures (because she already gave them to 3 other guys in school that have asked) abd if my bf was such an ass how come i want him back so much?? i dont understand. all i know is that i told him and he really doesnt know what to say. im positive he has no care for me at all anymore. and i want to move on but no one seems to like me.. and i get called pretty all the time so i just dont understand. anyone have any adivce for me to try to get over my ex and get a new guy? im tired of being alone..

Spark · 01-24-2008, 06:19 AM

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Originally Posted by kaityyroxursox

i am in love with my ex-boyfriend. its been almost 5 months. he just left all of sudden :[ cause we would still talk after we broke up.. he used to sorta have a thing going for my best friend.. and now i just found out they are talking still. she is a little asian slut and i think the only reason he is talking to her is cause he wants naked pictures (because she already gave them to 3 other guys in school that have asked) abd if my bf was such an ass how come i want him back so much?? i dont understand. all i know is that i told him and he really doesnt know what to say. im positive he has no care for me at all anymore. and i want to move on but no one seems to like me.. and i get called pretty all the time so i just dont understand. anyone have any adivce for me to try to get over my ex and get a new guy? im tired of being alone..

WOW Did you seriously just call your "best friend" a "little asian slut"? That's low.

kaityyroxursox · 01-24-2008, 06:50 AM

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Originally Posted by Spark

WOW Did you seriously just call your "best friend" a "little asian slut"? That's low.

well she used to be my bestfriend.. and actually there is a reason i call her a slut.. its cause she liked my bf! and knew how much i cared aout him.. and the day he started liking her she told him that it was okay and i wouldnt mind! BULL SHIT! she knew how much i loved him!

Brandon Burnthorn · 01-24-2008, 06:56 AM

try getting a hobby that occupies your time. that might help you with getting your mind off of him. if that dosen't work then take a dive into the deep end and ask someone out. someone you think would make a horrible boyfriend mmight actually make a great one. remember to never judge a book by its cover.

stratosfear · 01-24-2008, 09:28 PM

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Originally Posted by Spark

WOW Did you seriously just call your "best friend" a "little asian slut"? That's low.

Agreed. :/

If you can I'd say stop talking to him and try and try and find other things to occupy your mind and stuff.

stratosfear · 01-24-2008, 09:29 PM

Double post. :/

ssraistlin · 01-24-2008, 09:49 PM

You don't always need to be dating, besides, school isn't the best place for serious relationships. There will be better guys out there, you ex is just a loser who only cares about sex if he left you all of the sudden to be with a girl who is going to expose herself for attention. You're much better than that, so don't stoop to their level and let it bother you, just don't worry about being in a relationship right now, sometimes it takes patience.