Girls like it when guys are different from each other! so i think you have a chnace of gettin in especially since you havent had a girlfriend yet! just be yourself try talkin to the girl get to know her a bit and ask her out! honestly you dont need an insight on a girls mind guys will get confused big time anyways like i said be yourself and dont try to change yourself for a girl because if you lose who you are then you'll lose it forever!

I don't intend to change at all. I just didn't understand why and how to make the first move. but thanks guys/ girls this has helped alot. all

Nice guys finish last I'd probably say your little dilemma is more down to the women, not you. No offense to any ladies, but women seem to like the "hard nut" type of guy more than the nice guys, and the pathetic thing is that when you get with 'em, you complain men treat you like shit. Wanna answer? Simple - Go for the nice guy!

I know how ya feel, mate. I got a gf now but I still try and act nice around people just 'cause it's what I do, but I get the piss ripped outta me and all the dirty yobs at school think it's funny that I don't act like a complete dickhead.

All I could say is hang out with some nice, down to Earth girls and keep as far away from bitchy little sluts as you can who'll just get with dickheads and then complain about it. I noticed the down to Earth girls seem to get with alright guys.

By the way, for any ladies that might get offended, I was just generalising .

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lol killing you softly

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Its fairly obvious. Just look in the animal world.

Which cougars get the lady cougars? The strong ones & the winners. You can still be nice put being a pushover isn't attractive. Be more assertive/confident. Do you really want a girl to lead you around all day...

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"I spent 90% of my money on women & booze... the rest i wasted" ~ George Best

not to dis you or anything alex but I think that we have long since evolved from our primal nature. but yea I am assertive. If someone trys to give me some crap I don't take it. I tell'em to get a life a fuck off.

Trust me, I know how you feel down to a tee. It's annoying as anything.

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Alone again...

I loved reading all of your advice guys but nothing has seemed to work. I'm begining to think that atleast 99% of the girls my age are just whores and sluts while the other 1% are the kind I'm looking for. Its like finding a needle in a haystack or a peice of hay in a needle stack. I mean I hate to sound like I'm mean right now but most of you women are just being stupid at this age. I've seen what happens when stupid is carried out over a period of time. I mean. I honestly think that you women are smarter then what I have observed. Being that the asshole of the class. mr. make fun of everyone when he himself is nothing more then a peice of shit even a dung beetle wouldn't go near. I am a nice guy, assertive, and I tell the truth and how it is. I honestly think that our generation is in such a moral decline we just might lead this nation to its doom. so if anyone has any other advice please tell me. sorry. I kinda went off there.

Listen dude.. I hate to say it, but girls like the chase. They don't want the guy that is "safe" or the guy who they know will give them everything that they want. It is wonderful that you are such a nice and respectful guy (not many of those out there) but just try not showing that all at once, right away. Of course, still be respectful. But do it in more of a mysterious way. Don't show too much too soon, or girls will only think of you as a friend. At least until you get older, and the girls are sick of the bad boys.