OK I dated my girlfriend for 2 years now,I always treat her like a queen,take her to places buy her things....just the other day she decides that she wants to date other guys....
I was devastated....I really loved her but I guess she wants to see other guys....

now her best friend calls me up and asked If I want to talk about it....I say OK and go to her house,one thing leads to another and we wind up having sex,she tells me that my girlfriend has talked about having sex with me and it made her hott.....
I had the hottest sex with her last night and now my ex girfriend knows about it and she is pissed off....
hey,she broke up with me...now Im dating her friend and it seems that they are not friends anymore.....

but I learned my lesson here.....no more mr nice guy...
should I have done this??
I really just dont care anymore,she hurt me and now she is hurt......

What are you doing!?! You do not mess with friends, no matter how much you like the friend of your ex or no matter how many times your ex says it's ok, it ruins a friendship.

But who wants a freindship after they've been dumped, if you said you'd be freinds it might be a bit low but if not then I dont see a problem

Ive been with my girl for 4 years, she has cheated on me 3/4 times.... Yet she says that she still loves me.

Consider the modern age the promiscuous age..... Today, us teenagers have 50% more choice of partners compared to our parents....

Still its no excuse.... But i say good on you for getting her friend... Think in her perspective... Its gonna kick her in the cunt hard...

I have told my girl that I have found a new love, it hit her harder than anything will in her young immature life. ( 7 days after i officially broke up with her )

Reverse phyisicology* ( spelling sucks cbf with dictionary.com ) helps in some cases yet it can be deadly in other cases.

my 2c.

I say get on with life, its your realm. You make it your world. Its an oyster and you can only make it better with herbs & spices.

If you like the girl, keep seeing her. If they cant work it out its there problem not yours.

too true, you always seem to have the perfect answer. Teh pimpz0r?

haha

We all do things in our lives that may not be the most morally correct actions... but if you dig her then stick with it. She obviously likes you a lot or else she wouldn't be doing this to her friend.

What kind of question is that? Of course you shouldn't have done that. You should at least be happy that your girlfriend confided in telling you that she was not happy in the relationship and wanted to date other guys as opposed to going behind your back and doing something durastic like CHEATING. And now she has lost a friend to you because of it. The girl wasn't really much of a friend to begin with if she would've done this but whatever. I think it was really rude and wrong what you did.

Naaah. Don't sweat it!

Thank you

and I dont feel that it was rude at all it IS what it is......

# 1 Rule of Dating: Don't date your friends' ex. EVER.

You both broke the rule. You're both screwed. But she's the one who's in deeper shit than you.

If they are to immature to work it out its there fault not his.

Go get her guy. SHe sounds like she is hot for you! But as you say, no more Mr Nice Guy. ONe never knows when the end comes to a relationship especially if a gurl is involved!

I didn't say it was his fault. She made the first move, she broke the rule first. It's her fault.

I'm just saying that if he can get away with dating the ex's friend, go him. He doesn't seem like the person who isn't willing to commit.