hey im new here. and i'm 17 and neeed helpp..

ok so back in like sept. i met this kid threw a friend and he really ended up liking me. like alottt. he asked me out (on a beach) and i said i didnt want a boyfriend (which was a lie)..i just didnt think i liked him. he did everything right..paid for everything & would whisper the cutest things in my ear, looked in my eyes, reached for my hand, hugged me. everythingg i could want. but the more he did right the more i was convinced he was wrong for me.

we hungout for about 3 months. the first time i met him i told him i he was annoying and should leave (i was a little under the influence at a party) and the last time we hungout i ended up punching him (i was very underthe influence)..i ended up throwing up and he kept calling my best friend to see if i was ok and asking if he should come back and help.

the next morning i told him we should stop talking.
few weeks later we started talking again as friends but it died out when he said he could never see me as a friend.

lasttime we spoke was 2 weeks ago and he still liked me.
i called him a few days ago to say that i missed him and he told me he missed me alot but had moved on. he was talking to a new girl who was ready to breakup with her boyfriend of 2 yrs for him (which she still hasnot done).

i added her on myspace and she told me she had her bad things about me and that i was obssessed with her boyfriend.

she also told him he wasnt allowed to speak to me again, and he deleted my number from his phone for her.

she was rly mean to me and shes not even cute. idk what he sees in her.

but i miss him and have apologized and everything to him.
he was everything ive ever wanted, but i think thats what scared me away.
loosing him is my biggest regret.

please help =[

well obviously it wasnt a regret if you wanted it at the time.
you're just jealous that he has moved on.
you loved the attention from him, and now hes putting it on someone else you miss him

i missed him before i knew he moved on...

Life is full of wasted opportunities, you should have taken the chance when it came along. I no all about it, i have done it many times.

Listen dwelling in the past will do nothing. he has moved on, you had your chance, ya blew it, sorry to say it but I doubt there is a way to get him back. If she has him so wrapped around her finger to not talk to a friend because she says so then maybe he wasen't worth it after all.

i had a similar situation i did all i could for this girl and her friend told me that she thinks im annoying and i just stopped talking to her period. once in a while her friend which is also my friend asks how i feel about her i say i dont care but i do. alot

Your own fault in my opinion.

If I was the new girl, I would have done the same thing by making him stop talking to you.

Have to agree with cassie. Sounds like you miss the attention he was giving you. He has moved on, so just let him be. If you really do miss him for him (you really have to think about this) then trying talking to him and see if you can be friends. It would be harsh of you to break up what he has with this new girl, just because you've realsied you now want him. You had your chance.

I was in a similiarish situation a long time ago. Where a girl really liked me and gave me tonnes of attention and i acted like a complete prick tbh....but asoon as she moved on i missed the attention like hell. I thought i missed her, so told her i really liked her and she broke up with her bf for me. After a week of going out with her i realised it was the attention and i didn't like her. I went out with her for 4 unhappy months because i felt guilty that i had lead her on soo much and made her spilt up with her bf. When i finally found a genuine excuse to break up with her she was very hurt. I wish now i had just left her be when she had moved on and found a new bf, and not been soo SELFISH.

Your in a tough situation, hope you make the right decision.