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Old 01-26-2008, 02:45 AM   #1 (permalink)
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i just realized....

i just realized girls don't like nice guys,

iv been a nice guy all my life,always been respectful to girls,held the door
for them,listened to their problems and all that crap.its gotten me nowhere,every time i try to move past friendship i always get the "oh your too nice for me" or "no i only like u as a friend".
after my last rejection i started to think should i be an asshole to girls,
just to see if it works.

anyone been in my position before?
advise would be appreciated
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Old 01-26-2008, 02:56 AM   #2 (permalink)
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You'll Find Someone, Yes The Assholes Are More Popular For Flings, But It's The NIce Guy We Wanna Settle Down With
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Old 01-26-2008, 02:59 AM   #3 (permalink)
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Re: i just realized....

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You'll Find Someone, Yes The Assholes Are More Popular For Flings, But It's The NIce Guy We Wanna Settle Down With
The problem is we dont want to settle down (like properly start a family etc) till about mid 20s maybe and onwards.
Is he ment to last till then?
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Old 01-26-2008, 03:48 AM   #4 (permalink)
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The problem is we dont want to settle down (like properly start a family etc) till about mid 20s maybe and onwards.
Is he ment to last till then?

Fair Point!!
Just be yourself, you will find someone, but it might just take a while, if you really can't wait you could always join a matchmaking website?
Btw i have no idea how old you are so if you are like 13 / 14 years old, just ignore the match making advice.
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Old 01-26-2008, 05:30 AM   #5 (permalink)
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OMG i love respectful and nice guys.
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Old 01-26-2008, 06:00 AM   #6 (permalink)
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Re: i just realized....

Majority of girls dont. Be more assertive/confident but still be nice, you dont have to be a jerk.
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Old 01-26-2008, 06:26 AM   #7 (permalink)
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Re: i just realized....

yer if you think about it, it is pretty clear why chicks dont like nice guys, it because chicks are attracted to men not men who act like girls. and im not saying that if ur nice you have gender confusion or anything but what i mean is if your a nice guy who tries to be there friend then there not going to be attracted to you. So if ur a nice guy, dont be an arse hole just tease the girls you like a bit, bust ur compliments, be cocky and funny and really confident and u'll be fine.
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I find it incredibly attractive when a guy is nice. And its hot when people hold the door open for you
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Old 01-26-2008, 07:57 AM   #9 (permalink)
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You need to be nice, but at the same time hit on them. You can't just treat them like a friend and then ask them out
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Old 01-26-2008, 02:27 PM   #10 (permalink)
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Yea, if you treat someone like a friend. Then your there friend and nothing more.
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still be nice, because you will eventually find someone.
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Old 01-26-2008, 07:12 PM   #12 (permalink)
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Re: i just realized....

One thing girls hate most are the players! guys who play and mess girls about and only go out with you for one thing are fucked up and seriously are in need of a new life. trust me stay a nice guy! you'll definatley find someone!

girls get hurt pretty bad by these kind of guys and neevr trust guys again even if they are really nice and kind and will always treat you right!
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Re: i just realized....

Don't be an arsehole lol
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Re: i just realized....

nice guys will end up settling down
fuckholes will get flings

also it may be a shallow thing to say
but in the end
a lot of it has to do with ur looks
this may be unfair but think of all the times uve judged others
and maybe even the girls ur going after
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