Nofear120

My girlfriend Jane and I have been dating exclusively for 6 months.
Up until recently we have got on very well.
Jane works shift work at a clothing store and I am a student so we both have very different hours, however recently Jane has begun to show very strange behaviour.
Her hours which were fairly regular have been chopping and changing like crazy and so have her emotions. Usually she was really upbeat and social now often withdrawn and agro slightly toward me but even more so toward others.
I have discussed this with her and have said to her if she is interested with someone else we could still be friends but she told me she is not interested in anyone else.
Did suspect a social dating site for a while but when she does open email around me I don’t see anything aside from spam.
I know her friends and family and she would have no reason to sneak around with them.
I find this behaviour very strange – what should I do? I would prefer to keep my girlfriend but have been cheated on before and am wary as she seems to be displaying some the signs with the irigularity for work.
What do you think I should do?

panicmayarise

What did she say was the reason of her sudden changes in work skeds and mood? Maybe she's just being moody or something.

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x_candelight

I understand why you're worried, but she may be going through an upsetting or hard time. Try setting some time aside with her to figure her emotions out. Keep an open mind,though, and maybe she'll feel more comfortable.

parasympathetic

I doubt shes cheating on you (from what you say) and i think by suggesting that will just make your relationship all the more strained.......
like the replies above just give her space and time. It might just be a phase, maybe take up a hobby together or change something, shes probably getting bored of her routine life, that might be also why shes changing her hours to vary her life. Then again she may also feel displaced by changing her hours.......
I dont know just dont give up and be patient.... also dont take it personally if shes been like it with everyone

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d_vasileva

I think that you shouldn't ask her any more questions.Next time when she is behaving strange-kiss her and sa "Dear,I understand that you are in difficult period and that's why I don't want to bore you.Call me any time when you feel that want to share.I'm with you and I love you".Then leave her alone.And when she is ready to to tell you everything or just the truth she will contact you.Just leave her enough space.

cassie--valentine

maybe shes getting her period.
id be like that too.
i turn into a monster.

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shaz53xy

Maybe she is just going through a dificult time and you should just be there for her. Is there any reason you should doubt her?

cloxxi3

you say u have been cheated on before i i understabd ur gunna be weary, it sounds like u just need to talk to her, her moods might have changed because of the work, i know it sounds dumb but when someone kicks up my routines i get stressed cause im not used to having new times and stuff to do things. i think u shuld definatley talk to her about it... but dont accuse her of cheating or liking someone else cause if she isnt it may cause major riffles in your relationship.
hope this is useful

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