I've been like really close to this girl for about a year now, i want to move forward with her, but i think she only wants to be friends with. Thing is though im not very good with girls, i have no belief in myself, all i seem to be able to do is make her laugh but does't feel i'm getting anywhere, what should i do?

You'll never know if you don't act on your feelings and go for it, so quit wondering and do soemthing about it!

thats not always the best thing to do, when i did that it went pear shaped and belive me, it hurts alot when it goes wrong.

my advice, ask a female friend to try and put a 'hypothetical' question about you to her when they are both face to face. She'll be able to to tell if she feels the way you do.

hope it goes well

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well first of all you have to believe in yourself because if you dont then you have more chance of failing!i mean believing in yourself is one of the most important things in life!

and two you need to try and get a little more closer to the girl. give her some signals maybe to show her your intrested and im sure that she'll know how you feel. or you could confront her about it which is the best way but it would need alot of guts and seen as im a really shy person i wouldnt do it im sure ur different then me and you'll definatley do it good luck

you said the key word. friend. if your in the friend zone then just chill there. go after othergirls.


if your not good with girls the best and pretty much only way to learn is very hard. i had the same problem and still do sometimes. but the answer is so simple you might say "what? what kind of help is thaT?"

you have to go out and talk to girls. go to the mall, talk to random girls. spark conversation. you will soon realize that your words will get rejected and they wont talk to you. this is good. you are getting well needed experience. soon you will know what not to say and start trying different things to say.

soon enough you willl be having conversations and getting numbers. just keep trying no matter how many times you fail. just know that its just practice, so theres no reason to let it maek you feel bad. dont let it get you down because it will happen. accept that and know that through this training you will develope the skills you need to talkt o girls and get them interested in you.


what to talk about? little bit bout your self. little bit about her. little bit about whats around yuu. examine her clothing style, search for something in common. you have a few seconds to do this, because youcant stare. and you only have from the point you notice her, untilll you move your feet to be next to her to get to what you will talk about.


its very difficult at first, but just look at it liek a game. and bring a couple friends with you. if you want.


the only way to get confident with girls is to...get confident with girls. theres no way around it. just choose to be confident. treat girls like your guy friends. they arent very different. just go with it and be open and friendly.

oh speak up too. no wispers. they cant hear that.

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i agree with him too. try this first before you try my idea. if you even want to try either idea.



confronting her is a great idea. but he;s right you need guts and confidence. so maybe even try a little of both. like start sending her signals, while you are increasing your confidence at malls, bus, streets, anywhere you see a girl talk to her if you think shees attractive to you. this will increase your confidence i promis. you just cant let the rejections bother you too much otherwise it might have a reversed effect. just keeeeeeep doing it. no matter how many "no's" you get.

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There's no need to run \Staring at the sun \There's one place left to go \And everybody knows \Things are going to change \There's only better days coming comingg
I'm walking down this open road/I've got to shake this heave load/I know there's things in life I'll never see 'cause heaven only knows/Take this heavy load /Down this open road

You waited to long, your prolly in the friends category by now. After 1 year.

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