Am i in love with my best friends brother?? =/ i need some help people.

LadyTrojan · 01-28-2008, 12:05 AM

Hi everyone, to start off im new;; my name is Kanique..you can call me JuJu though. Love the site so far.

But to the point..lol.
ok so i have a serious issue..i've had a best friend for like a year and a half now, love her to death and we do EVERYTHING together and im always going to her house and shes always coming to mines. [FACT: shes over here now; shes sleep though. =) ]. She has a brother, who is just perfect. He about 2 years older than me though. but he is soo funny, and i would kinda consider him my best friend too. we do somethings together..but thats when were around our "group of friends". I just wanna know if he likes me or not, im to chicken to ask. lol.

We talk alot, and when we both talk to eachother we always make each other laugh, we crack jokes all the time. when he stares at me he kinda has a sparkle in his eye. When im at my best friends house all i wanna do is be next too him and hang out and talk. and when its awkward silence between us i just wanna kiss him! lol. And ive given him signs like sitting close to him and everything and proping my feet on his lap or something..and he doesnt mind, but idk if he gets the picture. lol.

& then again, hes the quite type of dude, who doesnt like to express his feelings really, so i have no clue if he likes me or not.

I dont know if he thinks i was joking or what but i asked him to be my valentine a few days ago, and he was like yea. and that he wasnt buying a gift, [he was joking. =)].

So Can someone help me, do you think he likes me?
and do you tihnk im in love with him?

keyko101 · 01-28-2008, 03:24 AM

You did the double post thing....

And I would like to welcome you! I'm Bintou, but most people call me Binbin. I joined up yesterday, so we're both fairly new!

Now for you problem... I'd suggest asking your friend to see if her brother likes you. Also, in group outings, try to get each other alone for a while and just talk. About anything. And really listen. You'll learn a lot about each other that way. Take things slow and don't get too excited. Slow and subtle, remember that.

And if you have friends like mine, they'll usually find a way to give him hints that you like him (and the same thing goes both ways, watch his friends when you're around him).

Good luck, dear!

x.Fizzical.x · 01-28-2008, 03:38 AM

well you say he's your best friends brother so you should tell your friend about it she's the best person to talk to at this time! and im sure shes the best person to find out for you if he's interested or not! trust me that's the best way really! so many bests! lol

oh im Fizz btw .xXx.

Nicole91 · 01-28-2008, 04:05 AM

your definately NOT in love with him, you just fancy him.

If your friends is the type who wouldn't mind you seeing her brother then make more suggestive moves until you are really close and ask your friend to put in a good word see if he tells her anything, if you are to sdcared to ask him yourself get your friend to ask him out g=for you.

LadyTrojan · 01-28-2008, 10:03 AM

THANX alot for the advice people.
=].

your really helping me out.

but im gonna throw some facts out there...my Bestie knows i like her brother & is kool with it if we go out. & i asked her before but she says she doesnt know if he likes me.

& me and him talk all the time..if i didnt mention it before hes kinda like one of my best friends too.lol. i know him upwards and backwards & he knows me the same. we hang out all the time, and thats what makes it confusing, idk if hes just being flirty or serious sometimes.

he walked me home tonite; just me and him...ughhh it was soo cute. lol. we were acting retarded and taking pictures and laughing but cute none the less.

one thing im scared of is if we do get serious;; if something happens thats 2 F R I E N D ships that can go down the drain. so its risky.

but good lord all i can do is think about the boy;; and he doesnt have a girlfriend either.

hes soo perfect;; good at sports-can COOK--i mean like super good ,, he cooks me breakfast 99.9% of the time,lol-hes a neat freak which is kinda cute-his personality is awesome!-hes the funniest person i know-really smart-he makes me smile-nice bod btw.

-his family is WOW! LOL-his friends are my roll doggs-hes not afriad to be HIM around me-which is corny, but heyy i dont mind. =))

geeshh. he couldnt be more perfect...so if i did wanna have a relationship with him;; how should i say it? =/.

more advice plz. =)

x.Fizzical.x · 01-29-2008, 04:13 AM

you two sound too good to be true!

if all these things are true then you should just come out with it when your alone like when he was walking you home that's pretty cute.

tell him you fancy/like him and want to go out!? the worst he can say is no and the best is obviously yes

hope this helped!

LadyTrojan · 01-29-2008, 07:39 AM

UGhhh maybe your right;; im just soo scared of him saying no, =(.

i guess im gonna go for it.
=)

thanx for the advice people....if you still have some ideas please share!!
i still need help.
=)).

mystrious · 01-29-2008, 06:40 PM

Yes, I personally believe that you are right. I will pray to god that you get what you want.
God bless you!

boy17 · 01-29-2008, 07:35 PM

I know an older guy who i work with who married his best frinds sister! So go for it!

iPodge · 01-29-2008, 11:07 PM

Go for it, your not going to find out by asking us, you only live once and if he doesn't like you back then so what? You sound like a great girl and they'll be other guys.

Good luck, and welcome