i feel that in life you find 2 ppl you truly love one guy and one girl. i have found that unfortunatly they have fallen for echother. the fucked up part is ones my roomat and one my best friend. i dont know what to do i just need to find someone!(oh and who ever said "its better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all" is full of shit!)

I believe you find someone you'll truely love, but at the same time even after that person goes away, you'll think the same thing about your next love. You shouldn't be so fast on trying to find someone. When you least expect it is when you get the person you love. My advice is to just go with the flow, and see what comes along.

There is more than one person out there. Thinking that you are only meant for one guy/girl is crap! Soulmates are a lie. (In my opinion). There is really no such thing as love at first sight. 50% of marriages end up in divorce.

Uhg. I mean I know it's hard to move on when someone you really love or like finds someone else... but there are more fish in the vast sea. Don't get too upset when a crush of yours gets into a relationship. I'm not really being mean but I think you just did not try enough. Well obviously you see this guy alot since he now likes your roommate. You couldve made a move, or talked to your friend; told her that you liked the dude.

I'm sorry if I sound harsh. I just say what I think straight on. No sugarcoating. I don't mean to offen or anything.

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the thing is i went out with both of them and they both dumped me for eachother