So basically I want to break up with my boyfriend. But I'm not really sure how to go about doing that.

As much as I'd love to be a bitch and send a break up email, that's not really fair to him.

But at the same time I'd really prefer not to go through some really long "talk about our feelings and where we stand." Just, no. That's not really my kinda thing.

And I'd also prefer to stay friends. Because I'm gonna see him a lot even after we break up.

Sooo, Ideas?

say to him what my gf said to me "I want to see other guys"

thats all she needed to say,I got it.....
just watch out YOUIR best friend dont go sleeping with him,like the way I did with my x's best friend.....

I gues who the hell am I to give advice

good luck honey

You don't nbeed to have a long talk to break up, but at least have the decency to tell him to his face, if he hasn't done anything wrong like cheating then he does deserve an explanation really.

Depends what the situation is to be honest. Like why you're breaking up.

You say that you want to send a really bitchy email, so I'm guessing he's done something wrong to make you think that the relationship isn't really worth it.

So, seen as though you said that the talking thing isn't yours style... I personally would still talk to him face to face. But saying that, that's just my prefered way to do it, face to face. Being abrupt and a lil bit stubborn to what I want.

Make sure he knows where he his place is with you, so you can't be blamed for messing with his head. And never take any shit from him, this is your decission, and you're not going to let his thoughts on it persuade you.

Short, sweet and painless. Best way to be. But, if you say that you want to be friends after try not to be too bitchy... Sometimes I forget that part Mind you, I NEVER EVER be friends with ANY of my ex's. They're ex's for a reason, they proved to you that you can't have a relationship with them. Being that, either platonic or intimate.

Hope that helps

Ahhh. He didn't do anything really. It's more like it's just not working for me.

I meant I would rather be a bitch and just take the easy way out. Email.


I don't really know what I'm gonna do. I'll figure something out, but I'd rather it be sooner rather than later.

Face to face is the best option becuase it's considered the most respectful. I would never break up with someone using technology, e.g phone, text, email, MSN/AIM etc

Short, sweet and painless.

Think of how you'd feel if you really liekd someone and all you got was a one page text saying it's not working. End of. Even if you don't want t do it , it's soemthing that's got to be sone, well you could call him or whatever but it's not very nice and he'll want to be your friend more if you do the caring thing rather than the bitchy thing.

Oh I'm not going to do something like that. I'd just much rather do that then tell him face to face. But I'm not that much of a bitch.

Oh come on Miss Loo. Boys can change! Even if we do end up being bad boyfriends, we could turn out to be decent friends at least. When the intimate attraction dies then the friendship might be a hit.

But to browneyez. There is really go good breakup. It's always quite ugly. Might not be on the outside, but i'm sure on the inside. So just tell him how you really feel. Don't lie and stuff like that... he would understand and move on... well eventually.

Nah, I don't see how if you can't keep each other happy in that way, how you both can be friends afterwards. If they made you feel like you can't be with them to spend that much time with each other...

Okay, I did it.

Kinda.

More like I wrote a note. And I was gonna give it to him and explain a few things, but my friend asked me if she could do it.

I haven't talked to him yet, but he seems pretty sad about it all. Not mad, though.

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