Basically, I met this lad just after Christmas, I had seen him before but we'd never spoke... I really liked him. I saw him around the corner from my house I was with one of my mates and we were sat there smoking when I saw him and shouted his name to say hiya. He invited me back to his but I couldn't go because I needed to get home but he came down to my house my parents were not in but they were coming home when they got back from my gran's family meal at the Christmas break. (This was on Boxing Day) Anyway, We were sat chilling in my room me, Him and my mates too. We had a right laugh! Then some of my mates left to go to their homes and were coming back in the afternoon of the next day.Anyway there was me, him and my mate. Then we were laying on my bed and we were kissing and things. Then we started to go out. And things went a bit far. Over the next few days I became lesser and lesser of a virgin. Now, We have split up and I think he could of been using me for sex. I thought because I hardly EVER saw him that it wouldn't bother me if we split what a stupid thing to think. I should of known that things just get worser and worser when things go wrong. Thing is I dumped him. I want him back. What should I do? I love the attention I just didn't get enough of time from him, I saw him once a week, At most. On special occassions I saw him twice a week, He didn't come to see me on my birthday, on the 28th on December. Even though he made me feel like that and most of the time I would cry over him. Hmmm.... I love him.... I think. :/ :S :'(

asshole alert.
find someone else to give you attention to

But you see I would but I really can't seem to get him out of my head...
What would you do if you were in this situation?
It's really hard I've just gone 16 and I'm losing the people I love FAST! MY mom has Cancer and I don't know my dad the only person who has stuck by me through this was him and now he's gone too. :'(

Not been Dramatic or anything but it is totally how I feel.
Everything is getting on top of me.

you can't love him if you just want him for sex, and even if you don't wanty him just for sex he sounds like thats all he's after

He sounds like a jerk to me. and I agree with Nicole all the way. You'll get over him eventually. And I'm sorry your mom has cancer.. I went through the same thing. Hopefully she'll go into remission and it wont come back. Best wishes to you and her.

Cheers guys.
I'll try but how can I get him out of my head?
Anyone know how to take my mind off of it?
I know that it is going to take time to get over it but how can i get over it?
ANYONE!?
Thanks for the great advice though.

There's no sure fire way, its different for everyone. With me I just tough it out, it takes months but if I'm gonna do it, I do it right. But it's just what works for you

All guys want sex, just some are prepared to be loving as well. Sounds like he just wanted to have a sexual relationship.

burn him on stake!!! (if tht is legal)
meh sorry but u got beat up over a male slag
i despise slags at least he didnt go with one of ur friends tht would hav been even worse
yh so solution is to set fire to his house lol hope stuff works out
lv frm me

What was it that he did that hurt you? It doesn't seem like he did anything as you broke up with him and as far as having sex with him goes, you could have said no.

omgomgomg

Reply to "what he did?" was that he lied to me to say that he would not just use me for sex and that he would always be over, No matter what state I am in.
He also asked his ex ( MY bestest mate ) if she would sleep with him because the timing was really wrong for sex. And I also said he had to use a jonny but he didn't, He got me REALLY drunk. and my bestest mate too, He got off with her. (So he did go with my mate which did make thigns worse.

MY MOM IS OKAY! She went into rebound and is clearing up now!
I think that this is a sign to say that things will get better. ( I hope.)