He wont let me in!

Lenakins92 · 01-31-2008, 06:14 AM

My boyfriend and I have been doing great!
but for some reason (since last week) he has been acting different.
He's being quiet and not as...well i guess you could say romantic..as he used to. He barely talks and he doesnt even spend that much time with me anymore.
Its not me i dont think becuase EVERYONE has noticed it! Hes been blocking people out and it hurts me. I know he has troubles at home because his parents might be going through a divorce but we always talked about that. when i ask him whats wrong he gets all touchy and defensive becuase he claims that nothings wrong and everyone else is just weird. I dont want to keep asking him but something is definitly up with him. He swears his life that theres nothing wrong and that he just decided to be quiet but..who does that. EVERYONE notices his not-so-fun behavior.

help? any advice from guys that know what might be going on?

Lenakins92 · 01-31-2008, 06:28 AM

anyone?

-.MeSoHoRnE.- · 01-31-2008, 07:04 AM

some people just express their emotions differently, just let ti pass eventually we will be right

Sazzy X · 01-31-2008, 07:20 AM

Give it some time and I'm sure he'll come talk to you when he's ready. Don't bug him about it though, guys hate that.

Lenakins92 · 01-31-2008, 09:42 AM

but its just. he gets mad when i ask but hes just so different. I asked him if his loud self was ever coming back and he said no. Well, I fell in love with his old self.

Sazzy X · 01-31-2008, 11:24 AM

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Originally Posted by Lenakins92

but its just. he gets mad when i ask but hes just so different. I asked him if his loud self was ever coming back and he said no. Well, I fell in love with his old self.

Hmm, I dunno. I pretty sure he'll snap out of it. Like I said, don't be pushy about it because he'll never tell you what's up, he'll just get annoyed. I learned that the hard way. Haha.

glorificationcreation · 02-01-2008, 03:18 AM

ur in a really fucked position same think happened to me and i just hoped he would stop but it keep getting worse.. try and help the best you can but dont let it get to the point were u feel shitty about yourself

Nicole91 · 02-01-2008, 03:25 AM

Maybe this is a wake upcall, if he can't tell his girlfriend his problems or doesn't want to then he obviously doesn't trust you 100 percent, or just doesn't want anyone knowing his business-not even you.

Try cheering him up and if he doesn't start to have fun then talk with him, he'll have to tell you what's wrong if it's risking your relationship, unless he doesn't want to be in that relationship anymore.