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I liked this guy for almost 3 years now. We were in the same class about 2 years ago and he knew and i denied it. A few weeks later we got into a fight over it and we never spoke again he has been avoiding me since, but I was 16 then and i will admit i was very immature about everything which kinda pushed him away now i'm 18 and in a better mindset.I was thinking of messaging him just a casual hello and seeing how things go from there. Would this be a good move or should I just leave it and move on? I really feel that I need to find some closure with him so I can be at peace with myself and move on since there was never a proper ending to it things were just left unsaid.
He's probably forgotten about you now, obviously would remember if you emailed him. So yeh why not? if you don't see him now anywya you've nothing to lose but everything to gain
I don't understand... you were in the same class together and you had an arguement about it... or something... and you haven't spoken in a few years? You need closure from what...?
You could message him saying hi if you want just to be friendly, but after two years if there are still things unsaid then maybe it's not worth dragging them up unless it was a big thing?
Well onlyt do that if he was a really good friend to start off with or something, otherwise he'll think your weird for a randomer to be bringing up something that happened 2 years ago, 'cos he's most likely moved on and forgot about you
He moved away a year ago so its not like i will ever see him again but just to be friendly and see maybe if he answers like its nothing than i know its cool but if he makes a big deal out of it than i will know it was never ment to be and just let it go all together
All i want is a clean slate nothing else I just want to send a friendly message like "Hi how are you" and just leave it at that and see how it goes you know?
Ya the other reason i care about this is because i still care about him i think of him a lot and can't get him out of my head. I have like many guys in the past but i got over them in the blink of an eye but when it comes to him theres just something about it that i don't want to give up just yet.
yeah definately send him a message from the sounds of it you really need closure, you will benefit from it in the end who knows maybe there is still something there?...