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Old 01-31-2008, 11:24 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Unhappy What should i do?!!

I liked this guy for almost 3 years now. We were in the same class about 2 years ago and he knew and i denied it. A few weeks later we got into a fight over it and we never spoke again he has been avoiding me since, but I was 16 then and i will admit i was very immature about everything which kinda pushed him away now i'm 18 and in a better mindset.I was thinking of messaging him just a casual hello and seeing how things go from there. Would this be a good move or should I just leave it and move on? I really feel that I need to find some closure with him so I can be at peace with myself and move on since there was never a proper ending to it things were just left unsaid.
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Old 01-31-2008, 11:28 PM   #2 (permalink)
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Re: What should i do?!!

He's probably forgotten about you now, obviously would remember if you emailed him. So yeh why not? if you don't see him now anywya you've nothing to lose but everything to gain
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Old 01-31-2008, 11:30 PM   #3 (permalink)
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Re: What should i do?!!

I don't understand... you were in the same class together and you had an arguement about it... or something... and you haven't spoken in a few years? You need closure from what...?

You could message him saying hi if you want just to be friendly, but after two years if there are still things unsaid then maybe it's not worth dragging them up unless it was a big thing?
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Old 01-31-2008, 11:30 PM   #4 (permalink)
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Re: What should i do?!!

Go for it. It's better to have tried to fix things rather than wonder whether or not it will have worked or not.
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Old 01-31-2008, 11:41 PM   #5 (permalink)
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Re: What should i do?!!

No no I don't want to drag anything out I just want to fix things and be on good terms instead of just leaving the wound open forever.
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Old 01-31-2008, 11:43 PM   #6 (permalink)
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Re: What should i do?!!

Well onlyt do that if he was a really good friend to start off with or something, otherwise he'll think your weird for a randomer to be bringing up something that happened 2 years ago, 'cos he's most likely moved on and forgot about you
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Old 01-31-2008, 11:44 PM   #7 (permalink)
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Re: What should i do?!!

He moved away a year ago so its not like i will ever see him again but just to be friendly and see maybe if he answers like its nothing than i know its cool but if he makes a big deal out of it than i will know it was never ment to be and just let it go all together
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Old 01-31-2008, 11:45 PM   #8 (permalink)
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Re: What should i do?!!

All i want is a clean slate nothing else I just want to send a friendly message like "Hi how are you" and just leave it at that and see how it goes you know?
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Re: What should i do?!!

Well do it then,if that's what you want to do...nothing wrong with that
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Old 02-01-2008, 01:46 AM   #10 (permalink)
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Re: What should i do?!!

Ya the other reason i care about this is because i still care about him i think of him a lot and can't get him out of my head. I have like many guys in the past but i got over them in the blink of an eye but when it comes to him theres just something about it that i don't want to give up just yet.
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Re: What should i do?!!

yeah definately send him a message from the sounds of it you really need closure, you will benefit from it in the end who knows maybe there is still something there?...
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Old 02-01-2008, 02:12 AM   #12 (permalink)
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Re: What should i do?!!

Although we are not friends i just think its the right thing to do and if he's a jerk about it than i'll definatley know he is not worth it.
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Erm, was the 2nd last post a question Confused me with the god damned emote.
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