Okay, so a few months ago my boyfriend of 7 months broke up with me. He was my first love and I was so happy with him. It turns out that about the last month we were together, he didn't have the same feelings for me. He no longer loved me, and he made everything seem like it was perfectly fine. So one night, I knew something was up, and I asked him, and he texted me saying he wanted to break up. He had explained that he hadn't had the same feelings for me for about a month now, he just didn't have the heart to tell me I guess. This happened a few months ago, and I'm still completely heartbroken. We no longer talk to each other, and we also no longer see each other. All the memories still stay with me though, and it makes me very sad. I still have dreams about him and I getting back together and I really hate it. I miss him a lot, but I need to move on. Any advice?

Perhaps you're dreaming of getting back together, maybe because you don't want to be alone? And you're used to being with someone, and somehow, you're making yourself think you want to get back together.

Of course, Unless you actually DO want to get back together with him that is...

Time.

Surround yourself with friends, and go out with them enjoy being single as hard as it might be for you at the moment.

What I would do is look to a really good or best friend and tell them whats up and how you feel.

The only way is time, I know it sucks and it hurts so much but time heals everything and in a few years looking back you will realize that you grew out of the experience

Hmm ya just stop on the lil hope we get back thing, everyone breaks up, its something we all gota go throught, so get out there and find someone new!!!

text message break up!
omg so low.

get over him fast
go out with your friends
have fun
do stuff you were doing before you met his sorry ass.

Socialise. It's how I got over a girl I really cared about for a year. Met someone I ended up liking instead.