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Fuck off if u think breaking up up is the answer . ur waisting ur time . its not gonna happen. Ok. So me and my boyfriend have been real tight going out for a lil over 7 months but in this last months and ive never felt so helpless in my life. In school he doesnt come anywhere near me anymore. He used to sneak over to my locker before all his classes to whisper in my ear he loves me and funny lithings whic i wont speak of. But he said i love you sop much. and if we kissed the night before or did sumthing new or touched in new places he would ask if i was ok just to make sure i hadnt felt uncomfortable. We used to hook up once or twice aweekend and then on the weekend,. We'd go for walks mostly and he'd kiss my hand and hold hands with me and say he loved me so much all the time everytime we were together. And even when the teachors told him not to come by my locker he would still find his way over sneakily. And would smile at me in the halls. and sumtimes waited for me at the top of the stairs then would whisper in my ear u look nice or u look beautiful nomatter wut i was wearing evven if i knew i didnt look that great or wasw in pj or sweats. lol. he was sweet, and romabntic, and a lil shy but loved me for who i was told me i was perfect nomatter how many itmes i said sumthing bad about me. Made me feel beautiful. But now in the halls i cant get near him he'll walk away and theres really never anytime to talk in the halls but we used to some how. All those wonderful i said about him all just now, well, im getting none of that. If we are heading toward eachother and are about to walk past one another he wont even look at me. like he doesnt see me. like i dont exist. He wouldnt cheat i know that for a fact5 because he liked me for being different thatn other girls. Not trying to change him. liking him how he is, not using him in anyway. never put him down ever. he's a virgin im a virgin and he was my first french kiss. the first guy i had been with. GHe touched places i neveer let guys touch. I used to be sexually harassed a whole lot, and a bit afraid of guys. Its miracle i could fall in loove and that things were just so perfect. He wont even call me wasnt awering my myspace messages. He's left me in nuetral. I cant do anythign. I dotn want to accuse him of shit cause we never broke up so i dont want to ruin anychances i have of wut i would call reuniting with him. I miss being loved. I have no of of even even knowing wut might be wrong then i caught him in the hall just us tow and asked if im waisting my time and if i should worry he so no dont worry things will be ok but there not. he didnt say he loved me then. Says he has 3 jobs. We might not be able to see eachother but i'd even settle for a hug at school not even a kiss.. its less every day i see him and its hurts to see him and not be able to be near him at all. soon i'd say i just want to him to wave. just look at me. just to smile. to let me know hes knows im alive. He seems so stressed. I dont know wut to do. All hyeres seeem to be for me is to wait till he tells me wuts going on. Everybody thinbks we broke up but we didnt. How the fuck is this fixable i dont even know why oim on here nobody can help.
Well, you're asking for help, but you're saying fuckoff if you think breaking up is the answer. Well, whether you agree or not, it seems quite obvious that the relationship probably isn't gonna go anywhere. If not, you need to talk to him about it and see why he's acting this way.
Even though that is kinda rude I dont blame you. When me and my bf are having trouble i also get scared and defensive when anyone even MENTIONS breaking up. Just talk to him. Let him know that he's putting your relationship at stake and that you dont want to lose him. Sometimes guys dont even notice they're hurting you. Maybe he has a personal problem at home or something and just shuts out the people he needs the most.
You need to get him alone and give him a good long talking to.
This isn't a nice way for him to be treating you, but he's obviously not a horrible guy if he used to be the way he was. Maybe there's a slight possibility he's under a lot of stress and hasn't even noticed that he's treating you badly?