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i jus got out of a year long relationship but i cant get them outta my head im still in love with them n the thought of dem wit other people makes me cry, i havent had a night without out tears since we broke up and i dont no how i get over it, i havent been through a breakup before and people keep saying time will heal but there has to be another way to get over the pain, a distraction?? anything?? xxx
Go hunting for a new person, that usually is a good distraction, though you want to be careful of tricking yourself into liking someone.
Also it has bee said that it can take anywhere from 6 months to years to heal completely, but if you find a new love interest, that can be cut down to a matter of weeks.
Don't purposefully always go up to them with the obvious intent of dating them, just kind of casually go up to them, is possible listen in to a conversation they might be having, and add in your two cents. be yourself for the most part.
I'm actually going through the exact same thing you are going through. It's really hard. The way I try and get my mind off of the break up is just to surround myself with friends and try and keep busy with things, so I don't have as much time to think about it. It also really helps if you have someone to talk to who knows and understands what you're going through.
Hun, it will take a long time to get rid of the hurt. The number one thing you need to know though is to not give up no matter how hard it gets. Believe me it will get harder too when he finds someone knew but over time it will get better. All wounds heal, but some of them scar. Still, he may become a star, but one of these days you'll realize you really don't need him, and he was just another distraction in your life..
I know how you feel, well I dont cuz ive never really had such a serious relationship, im always getting broken up with i never break up witht hem and well I know when I think back It still hurts, Its how I know im alive...It will take a while but you know what your going to grow out of this and become a better person...
he sed he wernt good at relationships n he needed to be able to meet people and not worry bout hurtin me n stuff, some people hav sed surround urself wit friends as a distraction but wud tht not be bottling it up and makin it worse ???
How long till it doesnt hurt anymore??
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