so there is this guy and his name is john and hes a year older than me. We became really good friends last year and stuff. I was talking to him last week on AIM and I like told him about this guy that i like and i kept talking and then i felt bad cause like i was the only one talking so i asked him how it was his "love life" was going and he didnt really say anyhting and then he was just like. I really shouldnt be telling this to you online but i think im starting to like you again and i was going to wait till we hung out the next time to talk to you about it but i couldnt hold it anymore.
i felt SOOOO bad and we just talked about it and he was like its fine you didnt know do dont feel bad. I asked him if we were still going to be friends and if we were going to be cool and he was like ya and i was like okay. so last night i called him cause i needed help in chem and it was super awkward cause he wouldnt talk AT ALL! everytime i ask him if were okay hes like ya and i dont know waht to do HELP!!!

Ermmm lol im a guy.... but yeah he will proberly jsut feel let down..
thats all but he will be fine soon dont worry!! ladz always get over this kinda stuff lol
my advice is just give it some time it will all be put right

Yeah just seems like he's down, give it time and dont mention that guy nor your conversation, pretend like it didnt happen.

There's not much else you can do... Make sure you don't lead him on, that would be mean But don't worry you seem to be doing fine... acting normal. He would feel even worse if you were being all awkward with him. Just carry on doing what you're doing and hopefully he should start to act normal again soon

i have been waititng for a week and its really hard cause hes like a really good friend of mine and i really miss him!!
thanks everyone!

Tell him exactly what you just told us.

it would be better if i told him in person right?

attention whore.

why would he care about being friends with you? there isn't much point in being friends with someone you like and them only thinking of you as a friend

and NOW that he's actually liking a friend of yours, you're actually making forum posts about wanting to get him back.

such drama queens. who cares?

you probably were only friends with him in the first place to make him your emotional tampon... and tell him your problems. and him being the nice guy that likes you, he probably listened to it all hoping you'd like him one day.

and now that he knows he has no chance with you, he's giving his attention to other people. now you actually miss him and you're starting to like him. just so the cycle can start all over again.

Where did she say that HE likes someone else? She said that SHE likes someone else. I don't understand how you can call her an attention whore.

i was about to say "touche"... but i was actually right.

actually i just reread that. i was wrong. either way, my concept is correct.

stop putting the word "like" between every word and there won't be any confusion.

I don't think your concept is correct. It seems that she genuinely cares about him as a person and as friend.

okay i have no idea where you got that i wanted him back. i want my friend back. and i dont know where you got that he was liking a friend of mine, i really dont care if he likes my friend cause i just want him to be happy.
youre obioulsy a pesimistic person and you should deal with your problems and not dump them somewhere else. so go stick that emotional tampon where the sun dont shine

hmm.
i know how the guy feels, because im going thru that right now.
and the one thing i wish the girl would do is give me a chance.
maybe u should just try giving him a chance, he could probably be a better b/f then a friend

just my thoughts.

...no really.

my concept IS correct. think about it, and leave yourself out of the picture. think of him.

why would he waste his time with a girl he likes that only thinks of him as a friend?

he likes you, but it doesn't mean he's in love with you. he can give, and get his attention to and from somebody else without wasting his time. he did what many guys should do... "NEXT!"

i loved that response... nice one. witty and sassy.

Umm my gf and I were friends and then I became attracted to her and she didnt feel the same way...I waited it out for a few months and now were together.