Why is she being like this with me?

rank101 · 02-26-2008, 09:42 PM

Im having a problem with one of my friends. She is the girl i really really like. on saturday we went to town with a few other people and had a great time, she was really friendly like she usually is.

But since sunday she's not been like that, shes been really cold with me, she pretty much blanked me out today.

I dont understand whats up with her, i dont think iv done anything to annoy her. what do i say to her to find out?

Thanks

E. Nygma · 02-26-2008, 10:12 PM

What exactly did you all do you? What did you say?

rank101 · 02-27-2008, 04:21 AM

We went shopping, then went to see a film, we were all laughing all day. I didn't say anything out of the ordinary, just the usual stuff you talk about when you go out. Then from then on she seems to be in a mood with me. don't get it at all

YellowDaffodil · 02-27-2008, 04:54 AM

Maybe you've just caught her in a bad mood. Why not send her a casual text just saying something like "Hi was just wondering how you're doing?" and see what she says... She could spill her guts to you about something that's been upsetting her n you'll be sooo glad you didn't presume it was because of you. If she doesn't though and she carries on being off with you, THEN you should ask her... just say "Have I done something to upset you? Just you've seemed a little off with me lately". Simple as that.

MME1122 · 02-27-2008, 05:50 AM

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Originally Posted by YellowDaffodil

Maybe you've just caught her in a bad mood. Why not send her a casual text just saying something like "Hi was just wondering how you're doing?" and see what she says... She could spill her guts to you about something that's been upsetting her n you'll be sooo glad you didn't presume it was because of you. If she doesn't though and she carries on being off with you, THEN you should ask her... just say "Have I done something to upset you? Just you've seemed a little off with me lately". Simple as that.

Yeah..thats good, but don't do it just randomly. Talk to her like you always do first and if theres still a problem ask her about it. Maybe she'll be fine and there won't be any problem, then you don't have to worry.

l'Arcangelo · 02-27-2008, 06:12 AM

first off, if you have been yourself thats good. don't change being yourself if you like a girl.

second off, don't text her, thats for d-bags.

third off, her vagina is probably bleeding.

edit// "don't change being yourself if you like a girl." i wrote that wrong. i meant if she starts liking you, don't change what she liked about you, she didn't start liking a needy/clingy guy... don't become it, and such examples (not that you are... great job). and if she doesn't liek you YET... still, don't become clingy... that's even more creepy.

Gabriel · 02-27-2008, 12:03 PM

Dang, I was gonna say number three Arcangelo.

Also maybe she found out you like her, and she thinks your a fruitcake. Maybe ...

.Angelique. · 02-27-2008, 01:00 PM

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Originally Posted by E. Nygma

What exactly did you all do you? What did you say?

Depends what you look like and what people around you say.

Capt Sasha · 02-27-2008, 01:09 PM

She could be having mood swings, could be in PMS or maybe she realised she just doesn;t like you.

sweet_song · 02-28-2008, 08:23 AM

maybe she is just trying to get attention
but like someone else said, you might want to just casually ask how she's doing, DO NOT say "are you mad at me" because that always turns into something bad

YellowDaffodil · 02-28-2008, 04:36 PM

We could go on and on suggesting reasons she's being like this... but there's only one way to find out...

l'Arcangelo · 02-28-2008, 04:39 PM

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Originally Posted by YellowDaffodil

We could go on and on suggesting reasons she's being like this... but there's only one way to find out...

you are the queen at telling the obvious. great job. put some thought into your posts for everybody's sake. your post count IS getting pretty high also, each post count added to you... the cooler you look and sound. great job there too!

*Oil*poINT · 02-28-2008, 05:15 PM

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Originally Posted by l'Arcangelo

second off, don't text her, thats for d-bags.

right

like we men can't even be d-bags anymore....

anyway just text her a message, or go ask her what's up, or just give her time. If the time thingy won't help then there is nothing else to do then to confront her with it

YellowDaffodil · 02-28-2008, 05:23 PM

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Originally Posted by l'Arcangelo

you are the queen at telling the obvious. great job. put some thought into your posts for everybody's sake. your post count IS getting pretty high also, each post count added to you... the cooler you look and sound. great job there too!

What the hell is your problem? I can post what i like just like everyone can so get a life n leave me the hell alone.

rank101 · 02-28-2008, 10:27 PM

She seems to be fine at the moment now. she isnt replying to any texts i send though, must be some reason for that (i havnt like bombarded her with them by the way lol, just a couple asking things)

I dont know, you women eh

cheers for the suggestions guys, i'll keep them in my mind if this happens again.

Thanks again