My on/off girlfriend of 2 years today told me she had the feeling I've been cheating on her.
She was really off with me walking home from school and was barely talking.
I find this pretty hypocritical as she has cheated on me, not so long ago.
After a few hours I decided to talk to her on MSN and she said she only thought it because on Saturday I'd told her I was seeing my cousin, but him being unable to get here I didn't and went out with mates instead.
She then asked why I didn't go online and see if she were free on Monday when we had a day off, and when I said I couldn't even remember where I was on Monday she said "More like you didn't wanna come out with me!"
This is bullshit, I remembered where I was about 10 mins after she went off; I was out playing football with some mates.
We've been on and off literally over 20 times since June '06, but this thing hurt real bad, and I dunno what to do.

Do you argue about other things or is he just paranoid?

Bloody double posts im not even submitting twice.

break up, you gada have trust and she dosent seem right for you

You mean "she" right? lol
And we used to but the last few months have been fine 'til today.

Yeah she, hard to say how it'll go, i was with my ex-fiancee for over two years, as time progressed she slowly turned into a mega-bitch, i dumped her and spent a year single then eventually met my current girlfriend and i havnt been happier since.

Always an option for you too.

Why are you with her, if you aren't lasting?. You said you've broken up loads over the past 2 years,well you're obviously not compatible with each other? who why not go and find someone else until you find someone that are are happy with.

She is becoming controlling and you should sort it out before it goes too far. However, you do have to realise that when you have a girlfriend... although it doesn't mean you have to stop seeing your friends, you should sacrifice some time with your mates to be with her. She deserves that atleast. Separate your time evenly between her and your mates. But first, explain to her that she can't just accuse you of cheating just because you're not with her for a few days... tell her if she can't trust you then there's no point in your relationship.

I don't mean any offense to him, but it's because he is pathetic, no matter what we say or do he refuses to stay broken up longer than a month. There's nothing you can say, he's heard it all before (most from me) and still wont pay any attention...

Dude, shit's changed (and I don't mean it like I used to, I mean it in a different way), gonna talk to her tomorrow and see how bad it goes.
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The thing is, no matter how much you say it's changed or it's different, I won't believe it until I see it, cos I've heard it 20 times before, along with "it's not like when I said it last time"

I would say that's BS but I know it ain't

If someone is really into a relationship there's just no telling them!

I really do think you'd be better of just letting this relationship die, I mean it already sounds like it's dead in the water anyway and you just keep trying to revive it but it's not working. There are only so many times that "this time it's different" if a recurring pattern starts to appear, it's obvious you aren't meant to be.

So unless you are only staying with her to say you have a girlfriend, then move on.