we've been going out for 3 weeks, he was my first boyfriend. and he dumps me because he likes someone else, but then finds out she doesnt like him back.

i just cried and cried. still am actually...

i liked him for 3 months and i was so into him, and i still am.
we still love eachother. (please dont comment on saying it wasnt love)
i said i would take him back.

now we are just "friends" and it hurts. i cant let him go.
we talk like nothing ever happened. but it did, he hurt me so much.
i dont know if he will ever want to take me back.

The truth is you don't still love each other. Don't worry, you will get over it...He's your first boyfriend, so it's normal for you to feel this way, it's also your first breakup.

it is going to be hard my first boyfriend and I were together for 9monhs and it has been over 2 years ago. I am still not over him. We still talk and everything. It was so hard. Just talk to him and let him know how you feel. Ask him what he thinks andif he wants to get back together. If not its ok it will be hard but it is a good learning experience and its going to happen again just sing really loud to your favorite cd lol that is what helped me. But it will take time but you will feel better eventually dont give up and dont let it ruin what you think about everybody else.

don't think of it as "i dont know if he will ever want to take me back."

it's your choice to take him back... and don't.

he had his chance and he blew it.

I think it's more lust than love. Plus it was only three weeks, now i know a hell of alot could happen in three weeks that could make you feel close to him, but if he just dropped you like a hot snot for someone else he likes, then he didn't really care did he? I'm sorry if i'm sounding quite harsh, but it's the truth. There'll be more boyfriends along the way, trust me, look forward to meeting the new ones, and if it's meant to be, you and him will end up back together in the future.

Yeah, definately! I don't think he deserves your tears and hopefully there are other things in your life right now that make you feel happy, so focus on them instead. :]

*E-hugs*

He was a bad boyfriend and you shouldnt take him back, whats gonna stop him from doing this again or cheating on you ?

I agree. Dont take him back.

It was your first boyfriend so of course you'd have quite strong feelings for him but he didn't seem to feel the same about you. Maybe you were looking too much into it? 3 weeks is hardly any time in a relationship at all. Get back on the road and find someone else, once you do and you keep that relationship longer than thisone, you'll realise that he didn't mean THAT much to you.

Aww

Lifes a bitch

i know how hard it can be when youre that into someone, but trust me, you need a boyfriend who will treat you a lot better than he did. why should you take him back just because the other girl knocked him back? give it time and youll fall for some one else... hopefully not an arsehole this time

Don't worry it's your first boyfriend. you will have many others. I know it feels like the end of the world right now but trust me it isn't. And obviously he's not the one for you if he dumped you for another chick

aw. cassie im sorry.

well thanks for all your help guys.
im thinking maybe i should just leave it for a while, i do care for him alot and i do want him to be in my life still, so i am not going to just be a bitch about it. we were going out for 3 weeks maybe yes, but we knew eachother 3 months before at work and stuff, we became really close. and we liked eachother way way way before he asked me out.

he was doing me a favour, either he lied about liking another girl, or he was a man and told me the truth, and he is no asshole.

we have acted like nothing has ever happened and sometimes i think maybe its for the best. i will take him back if he asks me. i will continue to like him still...

i am still giving him a present i was going to give him for our "one month" on the 7th of march, but i was going to give it to him the day after because its the towns show thing, with like rides and stuff. it is a key, and it fits into a heart shaped lock that i have.

i dont know if he still loves me, or likes, whatever, and i think i will just wait and see what happens.

haha thanks, its ok.