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03-04-2008, 09:23 AM
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Okay, so.....
Theres this girl. She is my best friend. I know more about her than she does, and vice-versa. We talk every night. She is beautiful. I cant stop thinking about her, even when I try. Any day I dont see her makes my heart break. any night i dont talk to her is worse. I long for 4th period where I see her for the first time of the day. I would do anything for her. My eyes light up any time I hear her, or her name, or see her. Im always trying to be close to her.
What does this all mean?
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03-04-2008, 10:45 AM
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Re: Okay, so.....
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Theres this girl. She is my best friend. I know more about her than she does, and vice-versa. We talk every night. She is beautiful. I cant stop thinking about her, even when I try. Any day I dont see her makes my heart break. any night i dont talk to her is worse. I long for 4th period where I see her for the first time of the day. I would do anything for her. My eyes light up any time I hear her, or her name, or see her. Im always trying to be close to her.
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You have the hots for your best friend.
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03-04-2008, 10:52 AM
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Re: Okay, so.....
Thats not a good thing. Theres lots of controversy about that. I dont want to. because It would most likely end up with hurt feelings and confusion. just bad in general
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03-04-2008, 12:30 PM
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Re: Okay, so.....
Spend more time with her as your "best friend" then.
You do have the hots 4 her
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03-05-2008, 07:26 AM
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Re: Okay, so.....
Let me tell you man, from experience I would just remain best friends. Wanting to date her would make things go south. From what you tell me, that would rough on you.
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03-06-2008, 01:11 AM
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Re: Okay, so.....
You could be friends with benefits although that may not work. Forget that. Don't try anything. Like the others said, it could be a problem.
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03-06-2008, 06:01 AM
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Re: Okay, so.....
I agree, from experience too, that you should just stay friends. You could date her, and sure it'll go great since you're best friends and know everything about each other, but afterwards, since there are no good breakups out there, you'll either be left without her as your best friend any longer or things will be awkward. In my case, both. Usually I tell people to go for it no matter what advice I'm giving because I think everyone should take a chance, but this situation is the worst I've yet to be in in my life so far so I'm not gunna tell you to go for it this time. Think about it before you do anything.
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03-06-2008, 07:46 AM
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Re: Okay, so.....
The only thing is, we talked about this. If and When we date other people, we cant be best friends. I dont want to lose her and she doesnt want to lose me. But we cant, and we know we cant. Thats just the way people are...
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03-06-2008, 08:31 AM
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Re: Okay, so.....
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Originally Posted by Wingman
Theres this girl. She is my best friend. I know more about her than she does, and vice-versa. We talk every night. She is beautiful. I cant stop thinking about her, even when I try. Any day I dont see her makes my heart break. any night i dont talk to her is worse. I long for 4th period where I see her for the first time of the day. I would do anything for her. My eyes light up any time I hear her, or her name, or see her. Im always trying to be close to her.
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Why would you bother asking this question?
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03-06-2008, 08:36 AM
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Re: Okay, so.....
I cant sort out my feelings. i dont know what im feeling. based on what I said, what does it mean?
Its just a question...
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03-07-2008, 10:07 PM
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Re: Okay, so.....
Well. As others have said, you do have the hots for her. But think about it. If you like her that much, but she doesn't like you in return in that way, or if you went on a date that turned into a fiasco, what would happen if you never spoke to each other again? Would you rather have her as a best friend or a bit more? Your decision, man.
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03-07-2008, 11:11 PM
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Re: Okay, so.....
You are having hots for your best friend.
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03-08-2008, 02:11 PM
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Re: Okay, so.....
Is it just "the hots"? Or is it something more? I already know I liked her. Its a long, complicated story.
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03-08-2008, 06:10 PM
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Re: Okay, so.....
Probably more but you can't be too sure on that.
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03-09-2008, 12:01 PM
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Re: Okay, so.....
Well based on the fact that you like her this much based on knowing her so well and not just how she looks...i would say you either love her or are pretty close. What you've gotta decide is what's more important. It's possible she feels the same way about you...but if things become weird you may not be able to go back to the friendship you once had.
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