My boyfriend and I have been together for five months of the three years we've known eachother. We're really open with eachother and I love that, but it seems he's always talking about some other girl.. a few months ago it was this one chick, let's call her Kelly. They had a class together and he'd always talk about what they did in class blahblahblah.. it was annoying. I didn't say anything about it because I figured it'd blow over. And it did. But now, he seems interested in another chick.. what's sad is that this girl is dating one of our buddies..
This girl though, he talks about in a kind of nastier way.. he's always talked about her ass <.< how 'purdy' it is.
Today he started going on about a threesome we could have.. he was just kidding around but does he really have to talk about other girls like that ?

I love him to bits and I know he loves me too, but is this something I should bring up ? It's really irritating me..

Maybe he doesn't realise it's not right to make suggestions like that.

I think it's alright to say once in a blue moon for a joke, but if he keeps turning his attentions to other girls and saying things like that somethings not right. Tell him it upstes you a bit when he says things about other girls and if he's going to do it tell his male friends and not do it infront of you.

I completely agree. He shouldn't talk about other girls like that to you, unless you're just getting the wrong vibe from it. Either way, I don't think he should still. Talk to him and see what he's getting at by talking about these other girls, as far as if he's got a thing for them or just bringing up conversationg. If he's not intereted in anyone but you, then try to tell him you don't like hearing about other girls from him, because he's with you and not them. If he is, then that's a different story.

Yeah, you should bring it up. And don't be scared/nervous to. If he loves you he shouldn't be talking like that. And if he's interested in other girls more than you, {not the your too good cli'che} You Don't Want that type of relationship. But most of All, It's your choice.

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My boyfriend does the same things when were on the phone he talks about the girls on tv and these othe girls its annoying..

dont worry at all, from my opinion, your bf is like 99.99% of guys, the thought of 2 girls is, offcourse, a nice one LOL but it doesnt mean a thing, and him talking about "kelly" is basically saying to you "i am man" LOL . if your open, and know you love eachother, you'll be just fine.

when he talks about her everyday - start worrying.

from my experience, teenagers arnt to discrete about cheating, its pretty easy to tell.

but for you this sounds nothing of the sort.

hope everythings cool

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He probably just feels really comfortable talking to you..The stuff he's saying sounds like something he would say to a guy friend. If a girl has a nice ass, he will let you know

It is really annoying when something like this happens, my guy used to do the same.