Ok so basically there's this girl I'm attracted to/like. We have 2 classes together and we had a class last year. Thing is we don't really talk/know each other. now the problem is she has a boyfriend and I'm obviously not going to ask her out or anything, plus I just want to get to her know and see if we're at alike. But I've been kind of getting signs that she might interested, I'll look across the room and she'll be looking at me, we'll make eye contact for like a few seconds and she'll look away shyly (or so it appears). There'll be times where she positions herself so were face each other perfectly and we'll have the same eye contact, look away thing happen, normally several times. And finally there was a time, last year, when we (again) had an eye contact moment, only she didn't look away but smiled at me in a more then "friendly" kind of smile and of course I looked away (being the shy bastard I am) and I feel my might have sent the wrong kind of signal/sign.

Lately, within the last 2 weeks, ive noticed ill get her to smile/laugh at just about anything i say when theres a conversation among the people sitting around us (like our corner of the room) and it can be nothing even remotely funny and she'll give a little laugh and look at me,etc. Whenever she sees/hears me laugh (i have a bit of a quiet/silent laugh) she'll look my way and laugh too and repeat with the whole eye contact thing.


Now i know most of you will say "oh shes taken, forget about her". So heres my questions-

1. does it sound like she might have a "small crush"(or has interest)on me, or is just being flirty/messing with me.

2. what should i do?? normally id just go up and sit next to the girl and talk. but im afraid to do that with her, because ill straight up flirt with her, without knowing im doing it at the time (im rather.. playful,etc around girls im comfortable being around) and im not the kind of guy to want to willingly ruin someones bf/gf relationship.

3. Am i just over thinking this?

edit - also, is there anyway i can show her im interested (so she doesnt get the wrong idea and think im not) without being too..over doing.

What if she's got a bf?? why dont you try and get to know her well sorta thing. Maybe compliment her like "this color suits you" or "you have got a beautiful smile" or maybe "beautiful eyes" or something like that. Well this is the best way to show that you are interested [at least thats what i have experienced] yeah in a light mood, in case she gets irked or something

Best luck

ty

Haha well you might be over thinking this a little but I completely understand. Crushes can be crazy sometimes. Ok well to answer your questions:
1. I do think that she is interested in you somewhat. Probably not enough to just end her relationship with her boyfriend because she really doesn't know you....but I definitely think she's curious.
2. I would treat her the way you would treat any other girl that you're comfortable with. If that's flirty/playful then so be it. I would make sure that you weren't taking it too far because she is taken...but if you don't treat it like you're actually trying to make a pass at her or ask her out and treat her more like a friend then you should be golden.
And lastly, I would just concentrate on getting to know her as a friend first while still keeping your flirty personality. If she's interested, then the friendship will grow and she could possibly end things with her boyfriend. Other than that, watch the boundaries. You wouldn't like some guy hitting on your girlfriend, so be respectful.
Hope this helped!

helps loads, thank you.

Girls with boyfriends that flirt with other guys are bad news.

I didnt even read all of your post.
I started reading it and knew what it was about already.
Dude, if you dont really know much about her, and its just physical attraction your going by, then move on.
She could turn out to be the rudest person in the world.
So yeah, get over it,..Especially now that she has a bf.
MOVE ON!

same to you.

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