i rly need help cuz its killin me!
me n my bf av bin goin out for ova a yr nw im 17 18 soon hes jus turnin 19 soon too n we r lyk best frends we spend alot of tym wit each other n r familys get on the only fing is we bin frew alot together n argue alot mur nw cuz of dat n its jus made me go off im slowly n nw i dnt fink i love him no mur n i want too plz help me i dnt wna lose him plz reply soon !
thnx xxxxx

If you don't love him anymore....then you simply don't love him anymore. But my guess is that you guys are just going through a rough period that you're not used to you. Give it some time and talk to him about how you're feeling. If it works then you will most likely find you have an even better relationship with your guy. If after all that you still feel like you're falling out of love with him...then it's time to move on.

Honeymoon faze is over as it were - long relationships turn from boyfriend/girlfriend heavy flirting into almost a deep friendship with sex. Thats what happens, you become used to each other.

You have to accept thats what happens when your with someone for a long time; the whole being like a married couple.

But if you start to HATE him, or go off him... then thats bad, and you should go. Just cos it isn't firey love doesnt mean you can't be together lol

hey, sorry if i lose credibility with me being younger then you and this being my second post and all butt:

as hard as it is to accept, there is a massive massive difference between loving somone and being in love with them. so many people never realize this and go around with different people there whole lives never really getting what they want. the difference is that a new relationship always feels soo soo intense, its that constant feed of adrenalin puksing through you every second that your thinking about your loved one but this isnt a lasting feeling people can nnever feel quite this way about eachother forever but whats left is way more similar to love love you have for you siblings or parents (obv slightly different) so maybe its a rough time for you guys or maybe your just not feeling the same spark as you used to but please before you do anything take into account that the love you share for eachother now is so much deeper and so much more true then any of those first feelings you had, the love you have for eachother now is worth the fighting for and part of a relationship or a marrige is being able to get through things like this with that person its your comitment to them through these times that makes it special.

sorry if i sound like someone small and inexpierienced (who cant spell) rambling on but thats the way i see it
i really do wish all the best for you and your bf :] good luck.
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I wld hve toke da tme to red tis bt I cnt cm 2 b abl 2 udrstd it!

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