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They cannot live without you
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03-12-2008, 02:16 AM
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Possessiveness In a Relationship Comes Because?
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03-12-2008, 02:19 AM
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Re: Possessiveness In a Relationship Comes Because?
both.
mainly from being insecure about themselves. they don't believe they can get anyone better... so the harder they hold on to you, they think they'll be liked more.
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03-12-2008, 02:27 AM
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Re: Possessiveness In a Relationship Comes Because?
Lack of trust and feeling insecure. So being possesive over something means you almost want to own/have it. A little bit is okay and shows you are interested too much shows you are needy and need that person so therefore they cannot live without you.
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03-12-2008, 02:30 AM
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Re: Possessiveness In a Relationship Comes Because?
^ I agree with that.
I HATE when people are really possessive. It's creepy.
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03-12-2008, 02:33 AM
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Re: Possessiveness In a Relationship Comes Because?
cos some people are too weak.
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03-12-2008, 02:38 AM
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Re: Possessiveness In a Relationship Comes Because?
Maybe because they just are having bad moment in they're life. They need someone there for them and they don't see anyone better but the one they love. Which is why they might come possessive. It's actually ...... .
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03-12-2008, 02:42 AM
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Re: Possessiveness In a Relationship Comes Because?
called being weak.
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03-12-2008, 02:45 AM
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Re: Possessiveness In a Relationship Comes Because?
Usually it comes from a past relationship where something went wrong and there is now a lack of trust or insecurity in that person. There's not much you can do to change it in that person, they have to do it for themself
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03-12-2008, 04:59 AM
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Re: Possessiveness In a Relationship Comes Because?
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Usually it comes from a past relationship where something went wrong and there is now a lack of trust or insecurity in that person. There's not much you can do to change it in that person, they have to do it for themself
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Yep, just down to bad experiences prolly.
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03-12-2008, 06:51 AM
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Re: Possessiveness In a Relationship Comes Because?
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Usually it comes from a past relationship where something went wrong and there is now a lack of trust or insecurity in that person. There's not much you can do to change it in that person, they have to do it for themself
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And that's when they become unstable and start being overprotective. They try to take control in the relationship which affects it negatively.
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03-12-2008, 06:54 AM
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Re: Possessiveness In a Relationship Comes Because?
Take Control.
That's a good choice of words actually.
In my experience (not a lot, but still) what starts off as just possessive, over-protective, jealous behavior, can very easily turn into abusive behavior.
And that's where it's definitely gone too far.
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03-12-2008, 07:02 AM
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Re: Possessiveness In a Relationship Comes Because?
anybody ever seen that movie with reese witherspoon and mark wahlberg, can't seem to remember the name, but it was just about this, maybe a little tooooo much, but then again, it starts of the same....
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03-12-2008, 07:06 AM
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Re: Possessiveness In a Relationship Comes Because?
Fear?
I just looked it up on imdb.
Fear (1996)
Looks right.
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03-12-2008, 07:12 AM
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