Okay my name is Stephanie. I'm 17. And well my ex Kenyon is 18. Okay heres the story. Him and I met online through "roleplaying." Yes we have met a couple times and he is a nice guy. We met in late june. We started going out in late july and we were off and on till early november. The whole situation is that well this one girl came into our relationship and ruined it, but we broke up and he came running after me and we got back together. But his best friend Sean kept breaking us up. He turned Kenyon into a complete and total asshole. I want the Kenyon I fell inlove with back. But I dont know how to do that. Right now were broken up. And he's going out with my best friend, and I know this sound bad for me to say, but I still really love him and I'm hurting so freakin bad right now even worse. Everytime I think about him I cry because I love him so much.

I dont know what to do
please help me

Wow, That sounds awful. Have you ever tried having like a serious chat with him and no one like pushing or telling him to say things. I'm sure if you have a talk with him you should be able to sort something out. The only problem you'll have is that his out with your best friend and he can't exactly finish her just to be back with you. It's going to be a hard thing but I suppose it's duelable. Depends what Kenyon thinks about the whole situation.

If you do get a serious talk with him you should talk bout what's happened and what it's putting you through and how you feel about the situation. I'm sure if his a decent guy (As you claim) he should do something about it. Although it may not be what you want. If he was single it'd be easier, but with him having another girlfriend; It'll be hard.

I'm sure something good will come out of the serious chat, IF you can get one without any interuptions.

Good Luck

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why is your best friend going out with the guy you love?? did she talk to you before they got togheter?
i think you should just talk to your ex and tell him what you think.

frankly both your ex and your best friends are jerks.
they should both know you well enough to know not to do that to you..
i wouldn't suggest you trying to get back together with him.. he just seems like someone who can and will hurt you..

do what mattster said and start a serious chat with him. but before that talk to your best freind and see what she thinks about the situation and about your ex.

does your best friend even know he was your boy friend?

It's not that horrible that you broke up with him. I know you think you need him and he's good for you, but right now he's not. He's changed and you need to accept that. Sometimes people change for the worst and they stay that way and he's not good for you.
There are other guys out there so you don't need to be with him, and the feelings will go away eventually. There's billions of other guys out there for you who would love to date you, so shut out this Kenyon guy from your mind and forget about him, and move on. It's hard at first but trust me, it'll get so much easier once you find someone even better.

going out with your best friend= NO NO!