Long Distance Help!!!

TooSly · 03-15-2008, 10:25 AM

ok how far is too far
ive got someone 5 hours away from me is that to far
i unno wat to do

plz help

yuipueiy · 03-15-2008, 11:46 AM

there's no "rule" for how far is too far with long distance relationships..
i think it all depends on how young you are/how depend you are on your BF/GF..
if you feel that you are someone who needs your BF/GF close by then long distance relationships probably aren't going to work.

kitten · 03-16-2008, 07:26 AM

well i dated a guy that was only 1 hour away and it didnt work but it depends if you two are ok about the distance then nothing can stand in you two way not hours, distance or what anyone says but also depends on your age and how often you see that person

hheartstrongg · 03-16-2008, 07:29 AM

it's only too far if you feel it's too far.

bubba4289 · 03-17-2008, 10:12 AM

My girlfriend is a little under an hour or so drive away. We talk every night and see ea other 1-2 times a week. It can work if you want it to work.

7isUnlucky · 03-17-2008, 11:04 AM

It depends. Do you think it's too far? It could be halfway across the world and not be too far, or an hour and too far. It's all up to you.

Bellerr · 03-17-2008, 02:36 PM

I've had a bf hours and hours away, and it worked for a while, only because we were both mature about it and trusted eachother a lot, but in the end is was too painful knowing we couldn't see eachother because of the distance.

If you like them a lot, and they're closer than that, like an hour or a couple of hours, go for it and make sure you get to see them at least once a week.
Hope it works out for you.

Bellerr · 03-17-2008, 02:38 PM

Again, 5 hours is okay if you can visit eachother, less regularly, if thats the case. Just make sure there's no reason for one of you to go behind the other's back at any stage. If there is, it's probably best to end it because you can't handle the distance.

Nicole91 · 03-18-2008, 12:49 AM

yeh somehow I don't see it working for very long, you'll get fed up of the travelling or ther'll be lack of trust, or you'll find it hard not being able to just see him when your upset or feel like seeing him.

l'Arcangelo · 03-18-2008, 07:53 AM

usually i'd get in trouble for my honest opinion, so i won't give it.

what do you want me to say?

long distance relationships are good if you're into it... and bad if you're not into it. good luck.

T.N.T · 03-18-2008, 06:40 PM

there nothing too far..if you love them you make it work...my boy lives 5hrs away and yes it sukx wen you want sum TLC but wen he cums down which is 4times in a year for atleast 2weeks its kinda okay coz you get lots lovin...

but if you know you wont be able to handle it then dont..

xzxkrystalxzx420 · 03-18-2008, 10:18 PM

I Hate long distance relationships.
My boyfriend went out of town for a week,
and it was only a hour away.
And We fought so much.
I hate it..
So it only depends on how you and Your BF is.

Nicole91 · 03-19-2008, 06:13 AM

My sister's in uni though and her and her boyf are about 2 hours away from each other but they seemed to have made it work. She is back here for a couple of weeks every year but i'd still say it was a long distance relationship.