me and my ex broke up like in august of last year.we supposedly broke up cause of the whole distance thing.i was devastated cause i REALLY REALLY loved him.he said he could tell that us being apart was killing me and that i deserved to have a bf closer to me that i could be with whenever i wanted.i cried and cried and begged him not to go and it worked for a couple days but eventually he left me...im crying as i type this...it still hurts.i txted him a few days later and asked him what was going on cause we had agreed to still txt and all as friends.he said the reason he hadnt been talking to me was because he had been busy with work,golf, and he got another gf...that pretty much drove a knife through my heart.he said he still loved me but he got a new gf that quick?well i decided to cut off all contact with him to keep myself from getting hurt again.since then i got another bf.i got curious the other day if he was still with the girl and what she looked like so i looked him up on myspace.yea hes still with her...idk what came over me but when i saw the pics of them kissing, it was like someone ripped my heart out.in a way i think he may still have me in the back of his mind cause when he described his gf on there it didnt seem like he was too concerned about her.he said he loved her but not like most guys describe their gfs on their myspaces....like, i love her so much, she means the world to me!..nothing like that.plus the first movie on his favorite list was transformers which was the first one we went to...what do yall think?i need help because my heart has been ripped out once again just after being healed.

I think you're over thinking the situation completely. You're going by myspace, come on. seriously, time to get off the computer and get a life. You say you have a new man, girl, don't let that pass you by. Let the ex go and just do your thing, if you two were meant to be together it'll all come around. So stop over thinking things, do your own thing and stop trippin over this foo.

myspace isnt my life.i just use it to talk to friends and stuff sometimes.i may be over thinking it but it still hurt to see those pics.

well, it's myspace, and you're thinking too much into it. get over it, move on, all that cliche bull.

I agree, it seems your looking for a way to get back with him or something..with the whole movie on the top list? let him go, he obviosuly didn't agree with your relationship and has moved on since then, you got a new guy now who you should focus your time on, sure it will hurt to see an old boyfriend with a new girlfriend but that's the way it is, be happy for him.

ok so what if im not as over him as i thought?its kinda hard to just forget about someone u love(d).i wish hed just txt me or something like we promised we would.i mean i still care about him as a person.