need help

fredettelover4ever · 04-11-2008, 08:47 PM

well im 15 and my gf is 13. weve been dating for almost 8 months. but we brock up like monday. we were like both depressed. she cut her self( dont ask questions). we just both wanted to die. i gave her are last hug the next day and she started to cry. ( we brock up cuz of to many fights) but then wensday i asked her back out cuz i couldnt live without her and she couldnt either. so atm were dating again. we both wnana live for ever. can u guys give me any tips on how to keep the relashionship going for ever?

ps: were not into sex we kiss, hold hands hug alot tho

and im new here

MissV · 04-11-2008, 08:56 PM

you're too young to grasp how long forever is, can you really wrap your mind about that?

if you broke* up because of having fights all the time, that should tell you thats something isn't right. You didn't give yourself time away from eachother to try to get over it. You're throwing yourself into a situation that is going to end badly, again.

Nicole91 · 04-11-2008, 09:18 PM

I think your taking things way too seriously. You both wanted to die because you broke up? you broke up for a reason, is it wise to make the same mistakes again?

You can never guarantee a relationship is for life, people change, things happen, to keep it going for the moment i'd say to talk more about the issues you were fighting about.

petriieplayspool · 04-12-2008, 02:25 AM

hahah. wow. haha. sorry

robb · 04-12-2008, 04:26 AM

They say arguments are good in a relationship (in moderation obv.) because it shows that you care about the other person.

Plink · 04-12-2008, 08:40 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by robb

They say arguments are good in a relationship (in moderation obv.) because it shows that you care about the other person.

Not exactly but I see where your heads at.

As for your dilemma OP. You are too young to be wanting to live together forever. I cannot stress that enough. Too young.