Ok, I have a huge crush on this beautiful sophomore girl in my study hall. She's sooo gorgeous.....natural blonde hair, blue eyes, very light white skin....damn!! She's really shapely too. But her looks is not the only thing I like about her....she's *extremely* intelligent. She's in mostly AP classes and I have her help me out with my math homework, although it's not much use because I just look at her the whole time instead of paying attention to what she's trying to help me out with. She's also really easy to talk to and is overall really confident, which I find attractive big-time.

I sit with her and 2 of her friends in study hall. Her 2 friends are always telling her that we should be together and how much better I am than her boyfriend (yeas she's taken, but more on that later).

Last Wednesday, it finally hit the fan and they asked me if I liked her. (luckilly she wasn't there when they asked, she was talking to someone else a few tables over). I was hesitant to say I did because she's taken and I didn't want anything to get messy. But my extremely red face and facial expressions gave it away and they figured it out. Then they started saying how they were going to get her and her bf to break up with eachother for me but my conscience got the best of me and instead of saying something really asshole-ey I just said "no, don't, that's mean". They were probably joking around but I thought I'd mention it anyway.

Then they started saying that she likes me too. I scoffed and said "yea, suuuureee....you're lying" at this, because she seems pretty uninterested in me. They insisted that they wern't lying, but I still didn't believe them. I still don't.

Now, as for her being taken.........I can't really say anything about her bf, because I don't really know him (I've only talked to him once, and he came across to me as pretty weird). Her and her bf have been together for almost a year, which is why I didn't really take what her friends said seriously. The only hope I see is whenever I pass by her and her bf in the hall, she's usually looking at me, and it's a very "I'm with this guy but I really wanna be with YOU" kind of look. But that probably doesn't mean anything.

Oh also thought I'd mention...her friends know my name even though I never told them. It's kinda weird.



So....what should I do here?


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"I'm with this guy but I really wanna be with YOU" kind of look. But that probably doesn't mean anything."

That's interesting...don't see that expression on aim. Hm, oh well. Lol, I'm just pulling your chain.

So here's the deal friendo, what I would try to do is get her screen name if she has one and talk to her on their. Ask her indirectly how she feels about her boyfriend and her. Don't make it obvious. You could do that or talk to her friends about what they think about the relationship.

Last note: Try not to over think things. Can screw you in the long run. Trust me.

I'm sure her and her bf are fine. I'm probably just reading too much into it.


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They may or they may not. If you really like this girl then ask her friends and shit, if your good to her she may change her mind.

All i can say really is just DONT MAKE A MOVE ON HER!

i know your not im just sayin if you have the idea of it DONT okay mate

Leave it for her to decide cus if shes allready got a BF then hes gonna be pissed if u make a move.

But good luck anyway

In response to Plink.....


I do really like her. a LOT. Uhhh....I did kind of ask for her for her aim...well actually I asked if she *had* aim, and she said "yeah but I hardly ever use it". Stupidly, I just said "oh ok" and changed the subject. That's why I don't think she likes me. She didn't seem very eager to give me her sn or anything.
Should I ask her again (correctly) or what?


In response to rebornzilla....

If you're referring to asking her out, then no I havn't made a move on her. It doesn't really matter at this point, her bf is probably gonna find out eventually.



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You know from what your telling me it could be that A. She doesn't think you would be interested in her and B. It could be that her friends don't like her current boyfriend. Women work in mysterious ways.

Yeah...when her friends told me that "she liked me too", they also said that she didn't think I was interested in her. Sorry....forgot to mention that in my orginal post.

The thing is though....uhh, if I'm asking her if she has aim, I'm obviously showing interest in her. I'd think she'd catch on to that.




And yea, they do kinda seem to have something against the guy.



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Not necessarily, I've asked plenty of girls if they had aim with only the intentions of just being friends. They felt the same way.

Another thing I forgot to add on to my original post is that her friends might say the things they do because they don't like the guy like I've said before they don't like him and they think you are sweet, nice, etc...

lol she likes you while she has a bf?, you think your the only one shes gonna have this feeling for sunshine? stay away - 1 she has a guy - 2 obviously she aint loyal.

I can def agree with that man.

Woooooaaahh hold a on a second. I have no idea if she likes me or not. *I* don't think she does. Notice how I put "she likes me too" in quotation marks in my last reply? I don't believe her friends. I think they're lying. I think they're just joking around and trying to stir things up. I said that in my orginal post, remember?



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Yeah man. That's also true.